Sexperience

I'd say you're Bi if you like both. But anyway, why put a label on it, just enjoy what and who you like to.”

As a woman who used to watch a lot of porn, I can say that it definately does change your views on sex. It doesnt allow you to have your own fantasies anymore, only the porn ones which are indeed rubbish.”

Its totally normal and I can't stand it when guys lie about if there a virgin or not - my ex told everyone "I sleep with a women every week" and from what he told me he was a virgin - either could be true... I would prefer a guy to tell me the truth.”

I am 36 years old and I love sex, but I'm having problems getting it to feel like I want it too. How can I help this?”

From a female perspective, I waited until it was the right time (25), however it was very painful the first couple of times, it wasn't the orgasmic erotic experience people make it out to be.”

I've been reading a few of the comments posted on here.
I'm a guy. and I don't find the lips or clitoris a problem.
It's kinda like how do you feel about a guys plumbing?. It's what you have been given. Take advantage of what you have. I wouldn't complain and any of theese comments. If you have a look on the male anatomy section you'll find guys are just as insecure about how 'it' looks as girls are.”

Going on top gives me really bad cramp and is just uncomfortable!”

I lost my virginity in the last month or so, and I think the best way to describe it is that you're body has to rearrange itself in a way, so for me it really hurt. However, the next few times hurt less and less, and eventually your body gets used to it. The most important thing is that you trust the person you're with, and you do it because you want to.”

i think that you should only have sex with a person if theres a connection not just from pressure its important to trust the person and from past experiences itll feel more natural.”

I wouldn't worry too much I'm 32 male and still a Virgin that should make you feel better! there are times when i think it may never happen which really depresses me and makes me think i should just give up. I have kissed 3/4 girls and tend to fall into the "friend zone" in short I'm the gentleman the "nice guy" I've had opportunities but if you are not attracted to the girl who was offering for me its wrong to take advantage. It has to mean something, if my lady skills were better things would be different and i would be in a relationship something i've never known but thats up to me. I'm a decent looking guy too I'm just crap at meeting and talking to the women I'm attracted to. In many respects now its harder for guys to approach the girls and both sexes have standards that are very difficult to live up to. you have time mine is running out you've nothing to be nervous about or to worry about trust me.”