...Everyone is somewhere along a huge spectrum of sexual preferences. If I had to say my preference then I'd say I was about 30% into girls and 70% into guys, it's all about the partner you're with and how you feel about them.”
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...Everyone is somewhere along a huge spectrum of sexual preferences. If I had to say my preference then I'd say I was about 30% into girls and 70% into guys, it's all about the partner you're with and how you feel about them.”
... I find if I'm suffering from 'porn exhaustion' when I feel like I've seen everything, it helps to read erotic stories instead to bring my senses back to 'real' people and sensual situations rather than explicit flesh!”
Abortions are a very serious matter and discussing the possibilities with parents or at least another trusted adult is essential.”
... It's clear I have a high sex drive but have never felt emotionally ready for sex. I worry about pregnancy or STI's. Men talk about masturbation but for women it's unacceptable... I think masturbation is a way to know what pleases you and shouldn't be taboo especially for women...”
...I'm really dreading the time when i could lose my virginity because i am not comfortable even looking at my own downstairs department, let alone another guy seeing it...
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I recently discovered my boyfriend sometimes looks at porn... It makes me feel sick whenever I think about it. I hate porn for ethical reasons... And because of course I hate the fact that he's getting turned on by other women. I don't know if it's normal or not, but it certainly makes me feel awful... It's degrading for everyone - including the men who look at it.”
I masterbated a lot when I was younger but the problem is now I can't have an orgasm by my boyfriend. Which is strange because he's doing everything right.”
At 16 or 17 I never thought I'd be saying this but I met the right guy and he's the only sexual partner I've ever had or ever want to have... I love that he's been my only partner. And the sex is not boring! To be honest its being together for a long time that makes it so good.
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I waited until I was married until I lost my virginity, and I'm so glad I did. My wedding night was so memorable for so many reasons, and I haven't brought any baggage into my marriage with me. I was 26 when I got married, and I had enjoyed being single for all that time before without feeling like I was missing out on anything. I have no regrets, and my husband and I enjoy a really great sexual relationship. Not everybody is "doing it", it is possible to wait, and I'm so glad I did.”
I can reach an orgasm every time I masturbate but I rarely reach one when I have sex with my partner. This has nothing to do with my partner's performance or physical appearance/amount of body/pubic hair etc. It happens because of anxiety/stress levels when having sex. The only time I can reach an orgasm with him is when I am totally relaxed and really, really in the mood. I believe this is normal for most women and men in some cases.”