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i feel that my vagina lips are long and saggy and i cry sometimes cause i nervous that my future bf or husband won't like it , my friends my fun of me and it hurts and i dont know what to do”

I'm 19 and I have very large, and quite saggy inner lips, and I have refrained from ever having sex because I absolutely hate the way they look. I know what I normal vagina looks like, and no it's not from watching porn, I live in a family full of girls and mine is the only one that looks like this. I don't particularily want to get surgery because that's way too expensive, but is there any way I can make them smaller? I know everyone keeps saying don't worry about it and stuff but I really can't help it. My mind is set. I want a change. Help?”

I'm 17 yrs old. I have the same problem as mine are long. It's 100% normal. I used to be the same way, I didn't like them and was scared to do anything.
I realised everyone is different in their own ways. My ex loved them, and my boyfriend now does too! I hate them but they do make sex a lot more fun & enjoyable. You're perfectly normal...”

I'm 23 years old, and have big lips. I have been with a good number of partners from high school up until this point in my life. I have always worried about it a little bit, but never let it stop me from feeling good about myself, or wondered if a guy would be excepting of it or not. Only because never, not once has a single guy ever said anything bad to me about it, and in all the relationships I have been in all those guys loved it! I just recently started a new relationship about 4 months ago, and moved in with the guy about 2 months ago. Once we started getting closer he brought up the subject, but said that he was just thrown off guard by it, because he had never had a woman with that before, but also said how he liked it, and it felt completly different then other girls, and was way more enjoyable! I guess what I really want to say is. I have had no problem finding guys that are not just excepting of it, but also enjoy it! So in my opinion I would much rather find a good guy that sees me for who I am, and loves me for everything I am from head to toe, and inside and out, and be able to have as much fun in the bedroom as we possibly can. Letting the sky be the limit! Then to go out and pay thousands of dollars on a surgery that will scar me for life, and possibly ruin my sex life, for the rest of my life.”

A lot of guys find large lips very attractive. Try to be comfortable with yourself the way you are, because there are a lot of guys out there who would love to have a girl with large lips!”

Hi
My outer lips on my vigina are big.
Not tucked in or how it normally is.
I think my boyfriend wont like it. Help x”

I hate the way my vagina looks, I find it embarressing i really want to start doing things sexually but im worried they will say im not normal, please help?”

my lips are really big and I don't go through one day without trying to get them more comfortable in my pants. The look as if they take up all of the room down there! I'm only 14 so Ive never had sex but I don't know what to ecspect in the future!! Any advise? ThanksXx =]”

I've got big lips I guess. Apparently, from reading online, a fair amount of guys like it and such but I have a different issue....!

1.) they're..annoying. even riding a bike sometimes isn't very fun.
2.) uhh what do lesbians think about it?”

I have very large inner lips. I had been very very very self conscious about them, but slowly as I had more sexual experiences I began to talk to guys. It's funny, but they actually like it more! My ex boyfriend said that he loved the way they look while having sex and another ex, when I told him I was self conscious, said it was so much hotter than any other way for vaginas to be. So from what I know, you don't have much to be worried about. Guys dig it!”

Girls - just look at how many of you asked about exactly the same thing. Now think for a while what it means... Yes - it means that long inner labia are nothing out of ordinary and you're all perfectly normal! Female genitals come in all shapes and sizes - and all are wonderful! Just think about how much joy they can give to you and your partners and stop worrying. My 1st gf had really long inner labia. Neither of us minded that and we had great fun in bed. So don't even think about surgery - big or small, long or short, labia are what they are and they all are to be enjoyed :-)”

My lips are very big too. I am always worried to do stuff with guys cause they seem large and ugly. They look funny too. Guys always want to do stuff but im to nervous there not normal. Please help me:-D and my lips seem at the ends that there not smooth. Is that normal. Can you help please. I would love it. :)”

it's as normal as having smaller lips. it's just that very few women actually get the chance, or even take the chance if it is offered, to see other women's genitals.

for the 16 year old who thinks she isn't 'normal' and wants it to go away; how do you know what a 'normal' vagina looks like? if it's from watching porn, i'm sorry to tell you that you're not getting a realistic look at the female body. they generally use women with smaller inner lips in porn because it's easier to see the 'action' on camera if you don't have longer inner lips in the way. there's no way to 'make it go away' short of surgery. please, don't have surgery just because you don't look like the women in porn films.

the split between women who have longer inner lips and women who have longer outer lips is just about 50/50, so both are perfectly normal.”

I'm 16 n my vagina lips are very saggy, I know what a normal vagina looks like n just my luck I know mines way different. helpp!? I wanna know how to make it go awayy!”

my lips are really big to..and i feel nervous everytime i have sex.. and now my bf wants 2 go down on me..i am so scared... i cant get surgey because i am only 16 and i dnt want 2 tell my dad y i want it done.. my mom passed away when i was little..so idk wat 2 do...help me!!!!”

Im 18 and have lig lips too. I do have a boyfriend and he says their perfect the way they are.. but im really self consious of them. I really want surgery too but is embarresed even to show the doctor! help! is this normal?”

i feel the same, im worried it's a turn off and want to consider having surgery...i don't know what to do cos although it seems its not a big deal cos "everyones different" im worried guys are gonna be turned off by it. hmmm...do guys not care?? xx”

My vagina lips seem really long, and saggy. I want to go further with boys, but i do not feel comfortable. i am extremely conscious of them and want to know if i am normal or not? thank you”

Vaginal lips come in many shapes and sizes, we are after all different in so many ways! What one person finds a turn on may be a turn off for someone else but what makes a relationship is how you feel about your partner, their personality, their appeal to you, how well you get on together, not the size of their nose, penis, breasts or vaginal lips!”