My girlfriend is Asian & rather petite at 5'1". I am 5'10" Black & rather well endowed. Will sex be unpleasant for her & not so satisfying for me?
As the girlfriend of a guy who is a lot more experienced than me and extremely well endowed I feel I can help here! Whether she is a virgin or not it may be uncomfortable for her at the beginning until her vagina moulds to "make room" for you. Perhaps let her go on top and so she can control how far you go in depending on her comfort. The main thing is to be GENTLE and she will relax, even if you still cannot fit all the way in. I am 5'4 but my massive boyfriend has still never been able to fully penetrate me... but fear not! We have both had the best sex we have ever had, together, despite this. Most importantly talk to her, because I for one am a girl who doesn't like to be treated gently in bed so we have come up with a system for when he is being too rough! hope it goes ok! xx”
Kirk: As a well-endowed fellow myself, experience has taught me to take things slowly and gently, particularly in the early stages of a sexual relationship. Some girls can be put off by the sight of a larger than average penis. You may find that you are not able to fully enter your partner, but then it is the first 3 or 4 inches of a vagina that are the most sensitive. Adapt your technique to your girlfriend's size, be very considerate and use plenty of lubrication. I can assure you that there should be no lack of satisfaction or pleasure for you or your partner. I hope this is helpful.”
As the girlfriend of a guy who is a lot more experienced than me and extremely well endowed I feel I can help here! Whether she is a virgin or not it may be uncomfortable for her at the beginning until her vagina moulds to "make room" for you. Perhaps let her go on top and so she can control how far you go in depending on her comfort. The main thing is to be GENTLE and she will relax, even if you still cannot fit all the way in. I am 5'4 but my massive boyfriend has still never been able to fully penetrate me... but fear not! We have both had the best sex we have ever had, together, despite this. Most importantly talk to her, because I for one am a girl who doesn't like to be treated gently in bed so we have come up with a system for when he is being too rough! hope it goes ok! xx”
Posted by Molly on 28th Oct at 3:58PM (flag as inappropriate)
Kirk: As a well-endowed fellow myself, experience has taught me to take things slowly and gently, particularly in the early stages of a sexual relationship. Some girls can be put off by the sight of a larger than average penis. You may find that you are not able to fully enter your partner, but then it is the first 3 or 4 inches of a vagina that are the most sensitive. Adapt your technique to your girlfriend's size, be very considerate and use plenty of lubrication. I can assure you that there should be no lack of satisfaction or pleasure for you or your partner. I hope this is helpful.”
Posted by jonathan on 27th Oct at 11:09AM (flag as inappropriate)