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Your questions about sex

im 13 years old and my penis is still small. all of my pubes have grown and everything works alright im just worried about its size. should i worry?

  1. I'm 13 years old, and I don't know whether my penis size is big enough. The lads at school talk about the size of theirs a lot and say theirs is around 6 inches. I don't know whether they're saying that to impress each other but mine isnt that big...I just want it to hurry up and grow..When will it do this? I've hit puberty and just want it to be bigger.”

    Posted by Aaron on 11th Oct at 3:59PM (flag as inappropriate)

  2. dude dont worry about it you will hit a spurt soon depending on your genes,im 13 and im 4 inches soft and 7 hard and my docter said i havent hit my spurt yet but dnt worry man ”

    Posted by cody on 5th Aug at 8:30AM (flag as inappropriate)

  3. well im 13 years old and im from europe u shouldnt be worried about the size of ur penis. my penis is 4 inches long and i am exercise all day long and U should do the same thing and wait for nature to do her thing for ur body.....”

    Posted by djordje on 23rd Jul at 2:47PM (flag as inappropriate)

  4. Nope, you shouldn't worry. For one, you're only 13 - that isn't necessarily full-grown. Secondly, as others have said, it would be pointless and horrible to go through life worrying about the size of your penis. And if it's just when it's flaccid that it's small, there's even LESS point worrying about it - my boy's is pretty small when it's not up, but grows somewhat when it is... this is really common.”

    Posted by Sofie on 24th May at 10:39AM (flag as inappropriate)

  5. u just have to realise that u r only 13, as u get older it should grow. plus u have to understand that penis's come in all differant sizes”

    Posted by Mark on 20th May at 6:29PM (flag as inappropriate)

  6. To go through life feeling inadequate because of the size of your penis would be mad. So just decide now that you're not going to do that! For most blokes it can be 1 inch sometimes and 4 inches other times. Either way it can give you and your partner fun and pleasure whatever the size. So don't make it serious. Sex is fun and about communication, not a performance. If a partner makes it a performance, or ever makes you feel inadequate, then find someone else. And on your own - enjoy masturbating really slowly, and maybe press your perinium (up between your legs) rather than ejaculating. Keep it full of blood often and for longer periods, relaxing in your enjoyment. It may just get bigger, I don't know, but you'll get better at the kind of slow loving sex where you enjoy focussing on each other rather than judging yourself.”

    Posted by Simon on 19th May at 5:08PM (flag as inappropriate)

  7. The older you get you will realise that we come in many different shapes and sizes. Maybe you have seen the rate of growth in some of your mates at school; some will be bigger and some will be smaller, there are no set rules. In a few years time you will wonder why you were worrying. You are still young, so don't worry. Older men will tell you that it's what you can do with your equipment that matters - believe me.”

    Posted by jonathan on 18th May at 11:10AM (flag as inappropriate)

  8. no you shouldn't, every lad is different in size and even if you do not grow anymore by the time you come around to having sex most girls will tell you that size doesn't matter, honestly.”

    Posted by Kirsty on 17th May at 9:14PM (flag as inappropriate)

  9. im 18, and feel happy with what i have at just under 6 inches. At 13 ur body should still be developing, there is nothing to worry about as ul have at least a further 5 years of growth, and remember we all develop at diferent ages.”

    Posted by joe on 16th May at 11:41PM (flag as inappropriate)

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