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Your questions about sex

i dont know whether i should shave my vagina, is it normal to?

  1. hiya, i used to always think hairy vaginas arent nice. After licking out a girl that didnt shave, i didnt like it, but now i do. When i fingered and licked out my cureent gf i found out that she shaved which is nice, especially because its easier to ind her clit, but now i prefer hairy girls. A little trim is nice though. So girls, trim a little bit, but otherwise, anything is fine :) x”

    Posted by Will on 23rd Sep at 2:43PM (flag as inappropriate)

  2. im 13 and me and my mum talk about practically everything, and my says that she doesn't shave hers. I don't know if i should or not, because when i get older people may take the mick. Should i shave it later and then afterwards not bother?”

    Posted by Em on 24th Aug at 3:27PM (flag as inappropriate)

  3. im 13 nd want to get a wax on my vagina bt to do so i wud have to tell my mum nd we really dont talk about aything to each other so it will be really embarrasing :( help! xoxoxo”

    Posted by Victoria on 15th Jul at 8:33PM (flag as inappropriate)

  4. My wife is German and has never shaved any of her body except for her legs in summer. I have got use to her full hair and now find it sexy. It shows her in her natural state and I love her for being her. I now find pictures of fully shaven women unattractive.

    Posted by Nick on 23rd Jun at 2:22AM (flag as inappropriate)

  5. Its your own choice wether you shave or not. I shave. But it do it in the shower, with lots of body cream, so it doesnt hurt. Although it pinched the first couple times. I got used to it, and tbh, it makes me feel a hole lot better and cleaner. I tend to shave up, down, left and right, to create a smooth feeling. My partner prefers it this way aswell. But it does leave me with discoloured bits for a few hours, its also irritable at first. But trust me, you get used to it. If you want to try it, go for it, if you dont like itm, let it grow back.”

    Posted by Cassie on 29th May at 11:52AM (flag as inappropriate)

  6. I've tried shaving and waxing and after years of trying to look a certain way for my lover I realized I'm happier to just be me. This means not doing anything other than a quick trim every so often. And I've talked about it with friends. A lot of women remove their hair because they think their lover wants them to, but actually a lot of people I know say they wish their lovers would just be naturally how they are, no matter how hairy!”

    Posted by [No first name supplied] on 15th May at 10:20PM (flag as inappropriate)

  7. i've had regular hollywood waxes(everything off on my vagina & including my anus),it's a fantastic feeling of being clean & not having to worry about stray hairs at the swimming baths. it's also great for oral sex. after a few waxes you get used to it & you know what to expect.”

    Posted by georgina on 11th May at 3:47PM (flag as inappropriate)

  8. I'm 16 nearly 17 and I've been with my girlfriend for over 4 months and I haven't had sex with her(doesn't bother me, I love her regardless:>) but tbh when it comes to it I'm not that bothered if she shaves, waxes, trims or is fully grown because I love her for who she is and I love finding new things out about her and if she's fully grown it wouldn't put me off! My advice would be do as you want, dont shave for boy/ girl... because if he/she really loves you it wouldnt bother him/her! but I've always been one of these people who won't follow the crowd I'd rather be myself! So be yourself and do as YOU want!! x”

    Posted by jack on 9th May at 9:58PM (flag as inappropriate)

  9. i have shaved a few times and it does leave me with an itch at times...i have never tried waxing but going by this and what others have said, makes me more confident in to using waxing cream/strips...than ks!”

    Posted by sarah on 9th May at 1:46PM (flag as inappropriate)

  10. As an older man I very much prefer sex with an unshaven woman. She seems more real somehow, not like a plastic doll, and there is a wider range of textures to enjoy.”

    Posted by John on 8th May at 10:34AM (flag as inappropriate)

  11. Personally I use hair removal cream I find it keeps hair away for a while and no rash apers =D xxx”

    Posted by Charlie on 7th May at 10:21AM (flag as inappropriate)

  12. but how old do you have to be to get a professional wax?”

    Posted by Lilly on 6th May at 3:16PM (flag as inappropriate)

  13. It is really not necessary to remove all pubic hair unless you are an underwear model or similar. It is not usually necessary, but just remove any which might show when wearing a bikini or swimsuit. Pubic hair is natural. We all have it!”

    Posted by Jen on 4th May at 1:52PM (flag as inappropriate)

  14. I agree, i have tried to shave before and it is great but 2 days after it starts to grow back, and its stubby and irritable. Waxing is definately for me bacuse it lasts alot longer. Having no hair on your vagina makes sex alot more pleasurable in my oppinion because its smoother.”

    Posted by [No first name supplied] on 4th May at 11:54AM (flag as inappropriate)

  15. Its all down to personal choice, there is nothing abnormal about shaving many men and women do it. If you dont have the money to get a professional wax (and this is better) make sure you use some sensative skin shaving cream, a really good razor and use either some baby oil on the area after to reduce shaving rash!”

    Posted by Victoria on 3rd May at 12:53PM (flag as inappropriate)

  16. It seems to be becoming quite common to neaten things up down there, for hygiene and appearance factors, but shaving everything off isn't necessary unless you prefer the way it looks or feels. Most of my peers shave everything off, but, working in porn, we're probably not the best population sample!
    I find waxing much worse than shaving for skin irritation.”

    Posted by Amy on 1st May at 9:55PM (flag as inappropriate)

  17. the first time i was fingered by a boy, i wasn't aware of how hairy i was, i didn't think anything of shaving or waxing i just pressumed i was normal and that was okay. but a couple of weeks later i found people shouting 'hairy' at me down the school corriders, at first i didn't think it was to me, and carried on walking and they then shouted 'oi lucy, you wanna trim that muff of yours'. i felt physically humiliated. i then started shaving but didn't like the results, the stubble really itched and it was getting into an everyday routine as the hair was hurting, also rashes were appearing which was very unappealing. i now wax, and i can honestly say, after about 3/4 times, it doesn't really hurt, yes okay you get a slight sting, but its gone within 2 seconds, the results are really good and the more you do it, the longer it takes for the hair to grow back- but remember after you wax you must moisturise.”

    Posted by lucy on 1st May at 5:40PM (flag as inappropriate)

  18. yeah shaving is really not good after a while it starts to hurt. definately wax”

    Posted by erin on 1st May at 10:52AM (flag as inappropriate)

  19. Thanks Lucy - I am def going to get a wax. I am a big lady and worry that I will be laughed at when I go for one so have always either shaved or left it. I think I would feel more sexy if I had it done.”

    Posted by Kara on 30th Apr at 8:08PM (flag as inappropriate)

  20. You can shave it, loads of people do. But you have to be really careful when doing this, as you could cut yourself. Doesn't take as long as waxing either I think.”

    Posted by [No first name supplied] on 30th Apr at 5:28PM (flag as inappropriate)

  21. I would deffinately recommend waxing. It really doesn't hurt as much as they say and the results are so much better and cause little irritation. Shaving can mean cuts (owch) and rashes when the stubble rubs against underwear. Get a professional wax is my advise!”

    Posted by Lucy on 30th Apr at 11:05AM (flag as inappropriate)

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