WARNING: This site features very frank and occasionally explicit accounts of personal experiences of sex — parental guidance is recommended
KJ, Alex, Eileen, Matthew, Annikka, Rob K, Marsie, Michelle T, Tara, and Sarah mention safe sex
How do you feel about one night stands?
“Got paralytic drunk and I took a girl home from a rave. And, like, I had sex with her with no condom…”
Have you ever had a problem convincing a partner to use contraception?
“All this would have been discussed and negotiated before the sexual encounter even takes place. And if they say they don’t want to use contraception during the negotiations…”
In your experience, do drink and drugs mix well with sex?
“I don’t even take refined sugar. And drugs don’t even go there... ”
How did your parents tell you about sex?
“The only sex chat I’ve ever had with my mum occurred when I was about 17 and I’d just come back from a guy I was seeing…”
What was the worst sex you ever had?
“I have never wanted to be somewhere else ever in my life, it just, it was horrible, it was horrible.”
Have you ever had a problem convincing a partner to use contraception?
“Most guys from my experience, will have bareback, or unprotected sex, if you allow them to.”
Have you ever had a problem convincing a partner to use contraception?
“It really scares me the number of partners that I’ve had who have been quite happy to not even discuss safer sex.”
“I’d say overall I’ve slept with hundreds of people, possibly going into the thousand mark, I’d say, because I’ve lost count. ”
Have you ever had a problem using contraception?
“From my personal experiences you need to use protection regardless of whether it’s 2 men, 2 women and also straight couples.”
Have you ever been worried that you might be pregnant when you didn't want to be?
“I've been taking contraceptives since I was 18 but did have before then a split condom incident which put the fear of God into me ...”
Have you ever been worried that you might be pregnant when you didn't want to be?
“I was constantly worried every single month that I'd get pregnant…”