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KJ, Rose, Chris, Lela, Ann, Marie, Michelle T, Tara, Sarah, and Ricki mention rejection
Have you ever experienced awkwardness after sex?
“They probably want me to stay around and watch telly and what not, but I’m not really I’m not really interested in that. ”
Has sex ever meant something different to you and your sexual partner?
“I know why I’m doing what I’m doing, and they think it’s... something else. ”
“I mean I’ve done it, just kind of to boost myself esteem, but there’s no point because it always drops that further afterwards.”
Has sex ever meant something different to you and your sexual partner?
“She just wanted sex and not the relationship, and I wanted the whole hog.”
Has sex ever meant something different to you and your sexual partner?
“It has been a bit problematic in the past, from what I’ve found. For example, usually when a guy gives me the impression that they’re genuinely interested in me and not just sex... ”
“If you say no then you end up either having an argument or possibly even losing that person, but then if you say yes are you saying yes for the right reasons? ”
Has sex ever meant something different to you and your sexual partner?
“I would turn him down. And he would take this so badly, really badly. It was like an ultimate rejection. ”
Has sex ever meant something different to you and your sexual partner?
“I was out at G-A-Y bar, as you do, you know enjoying myself, having a few drinks, and this beautiful lady came over to me and started talking to me...”
“because I wasn’t actually looking for a meaningful relationship with them it didn’t really matter”
“I'd started seeing someone and it's turned out they've just wanted me for sex... ”
“...you like them as a person so when they give you a lift home and drop you off and that's it - you feel a bit used…”