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Jo, Eileen, Rob K, Jackie, Marsie, Graham, Marie, Danny, Claire, Susie, Amy, Tara, Raj, Mica, Shantelle, Niv, Sarah, and Ricki mention pornography
“As Christians we both believe that pornography can actually do more damage than it can good.”
“You know, when you’re 6, you don’t really know what’s happening and why it’s happening. I mean, I thought the guy was peeing on her.”
“I’ve always found it quite strange when people want to watch porn at the same time as having sex.”
“The very first ones, the only ones that we used to watch, with the flock wallpaper in the background, I were more interested in the horrific decoration they had. ”
What gets you in the mood for sex?
“For about 4 years it was vampires that I was obsessed by. I’d have to sort of watch a vampire DVD to build up to get in the mood for sex.”
“We stripped off and was walking around, we felt very, very liberated and free and I must admit it’s quite an arousing kinda sensation as well.”
“One time my fiancée was in the room with me and she could see I was getting a little bit fruity... ”
How did you lose your virginity?
“A friend’s boyfriend actually snuck one of his Dad’s top shelf magazines out and we were having a bit of laugh reading one…”
“There’s always like different sex positions you can find out about, different toys you can use… it’s actually educational in its own way.”
“So it's just like one looks like another, so for me now, it's just a case of having some fun watching it and having a bit of laugh”
How often do you look at pornographic images?
“… when you get to my age you've been there, seen it, done it and, to be fair, I don't think there's anything that a pornographic video could show me now …”
When was the first time you looked at pornography and what was your reaction?
“And I just thought: "Ooh. Do these people really do this? I mean, is this what they really get up to?, ”
Do you and your partner use pornography together?
“I think we can just use our own imagination, and i think that conjures up a lot more than what it would do, if it were any pornographic film or anything”
How often do you look at pornographic images?
“…it kind of builds up that trust between us and we see other women on television and feel jealous about it but we feel comfortable with being attractive to ourselves or to each other”
When was the first time you looked at pornography and what was your reaction?
“I was amused by the whole thing, I think I thought it was suppose to be a comedy magazine just like and I got my friends round and we went through it in my room sort of carefully listening out for my parents. ”
Have you ever filmed yourself or someone else engaged in a sexual activity?
“Afterwards watching the film I didn't feel at all sexy as I was going my bum looks a bit big from that angle ”
When was the first time you looked at pornography and what was your reaction?
“in porn actually you get a really quite ugly looking guys presumably because no on is really looking at their faces.”
Have you ever filmed yourself or someone else engaged in a sexual activity?
“It just looked quite silly seeing yourself doing those things.”
Do you think pornography reflects the realities of sex?
“The guy always seem to maintain the erection - no that doesn’t always happen at all and you know there is no excuse the term fanny farts going on.”
What’s your most embarrassing sexual experience?
“…oh there is a sex program so there was nothing else on and I though oh this is a bit more fun isn’t it and suddenly my wife burst in…”
When was the first time you looked at pornography and what was your reaction?
“The first time I saw anything that was pornographic was I was walking to school with a friend of mine and he dropped a magazine from underneath his jacket to the embarrassment of every other school child walking across the road and er, and after being que”
Do you and your partner use pornography together?
“I’ve watched porn with my wife and a little shocking for her at first but then she opened up …”
When was the first time you looked at pornography and what was your reaction?
“…really embarrassing we just thought it was a home video, put it in, and it was obviously - porn.”
“It makes me feel a bit dirty in that kind of way and I would rather play out live scene with my partner …”
When was the first time you looked at pornography and what was your reaction?
“I was like "wow excuse me? okay then I don't want to watch anymore of this" you know you got people laughing at you”
Do you think pornography reflects the realities of sex?
“If they were really feeling the height of the moment you know there will be a point where they would have to come…”
How important is masturbation to you?
“Masturbation is great but sex with someone else is even better. ”
How often do you look at pornographic images?
“I would rather read a good book than watch porn. ”
Have you ever filmed yourself or someone else engaged in a sexual activity?
“I don't think I want to be a Paris Hilton …”
How often do you look at pornographic images?
“I've had a lot of guys who have expected me or wanted me to do things that clearly they've seen in porn ”
“I can grope myself but that's as far as it goes…”
How often do you look at pornographic images?
“Images are fine to turn you on …”