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Mike, Lusipher, KJ, Jenny, Shirley, Nicky, Nick, Michelle H, Adam, Jason, Ben, Rob O, Lisa, Matthew, Annikka, Marsie, Graham, Danny, Claire, Shantelle, Niv, and Ricki mention orgasm
How would you describe an orgasm?
“It’s like getting your t-shirt and twisting your t-shirt so that it gets tight but it’s growing at the same time.”
“If you’ve made someone else come it’s like that is definitely you’ve had sex.”
Have you ever had a problem having an orgasm?
“They tend to be the ones who are more likely to make a really, really, really big deal about it, like they think they haven’t done something right or they think you’re not happy with them”
“To some people they almost seem to be the be all and end all of sex, like they have sex to have an orgasm, whereas I have sex because I like having sex.”
How would you describe an orgasm?
“I think it’s something that as humans we need from time to time. Once you’ve experienced it you need it.”
How would you describe an orgasm?
“Having an orgasm for me is quite a functional thing. It’s a stress relief. ”
How would you describe an orgasm?
“If you can actually have like orgasms, or come together, then it’s fantastic.”
Have you ever had a problem having an orgasm?
“I actually got quite good at faking it, so I didn’t realise what they were until…”
How would you describe an orgasm?
“I would describe the experience of having an orgasm as just being a total relaxation and lack of control over your own muscles.”
How important is masturbation to you?
“I’ve discovered lots of things about myself through obviously trying things out…”
“I mean obviously it’s a fantastic feeling but I wouldn’t say that that should be the be end and everything of your relationship.”
Have you ever had a problem having an orgasm?
“I remember one time actually when it first happened, I thought what’s wrong with me, she was gorgeous you know. I should have been well away.”
How would you describe an orgasm?
“It’s kind of like the end product of what might be five minutes’ work, it might be whole day’s work. ”
How would you describe an orgasm?
“It would be… like… having the best pee in the world when you’ve been really, really wanting to go to the toilet!”
“If you don’t, then it obviously means that there’s something wrong with your relationship.”
Have you ever had a problem having an orgasm?
“I mean I don’t find it a problem, it’s just something that’s never happened for me…”
Have you ever slept with more than one person at the same time?
“The first one was er… was awful, it was absolutely awful.”
How important is masturbation to you?
“It was recommended to me a few years ago by a friend of mine. And that entails using, er, a power shower…”
Have you ever had a problem having an orgasm?
“I used to think that there was something wrong with me…”
Have you ever had a problem having an orgasm?
“I’ve gotta say it felt like I was wetting myself, so it didn’t really feel very nice so I’m glad that I haven’t had them very often.”
“You can do that by playing with yourself, you don’t really need a guy to do that for you.”
Have you ever had a problem having an orgasm?
“I’ve never really had a problem having orgasms, but just to enhance it what I sometimes do is take the old wonder pill…”
Have you ever had a problem having an orgasm?
“There’s been times when it’s been a bit dodgy, and I haven’t been able to get there…”
“If you didn’t have orgasms you’d be questioning what was wrong.”
Have you ever had a problem having an orgasm?
“I feel that I’ve had trouble reaching orgasm before in years gone by really because it has been a relaxation thing what with children, maybe worrying they're having in their packed lunch the next day or issues of work ”
“It should definitely be a yes because at the end of the day not all orgasms can be achieved through intercourse…”
What’s your most embarrassing sexual experience?
“...he said "oh that is it" and I was like "sorry but", it was really, really embarrassing…”
How would you describe an orgasm?
“I got up and I fell over on to the floor because my legs were shaking. I've never had it before and I would love to have it again. ”