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Jenny, Jo, Alex, Michelle H, Adam, Lela, Jason, Karen, Rob O, Lisa, Matthew, Annikka, Rob K, Peter, Marsie, Marie, Danny, Michelle T, Amy, Shantelle, Niv, and Ricki mention masturbation
“My sex drive is pretty high I would say, going on by what my husband says and all the boyfriends I’ve had before. It’s not usually a problem…”
How do you handle a partner with a different sex drive?
“When I’ve had a partner with a different sex drive, you’ve got two choices…”
How important is masturbation to you?
“Your sex life is for each other, you give yourself to the other person,and masturbation is very kind of, self indulgent, you kind of do that for your own pleasure.”
What was sex like during pregnancy?
“I was feeling really ill, I had terrible morning sickness, although my goodness it does not last just in the morning…”
How important is masturbation to you?
“Masturbation is a solo activity. It’s not sex. ”
Have you ever been caught masturbating?
“I have quite a traditional Chinese Christian family and my mum thinks that, you know, things like that, it’s a one way ticket to hell. ”
How important is masturbation to you?
“I’ve discovered lots of things about myself through obviously trying things out…”
How important is masturbation to you?
“You know I used to do it at school. I used to have competitions with my friends in the toilets.”
Have you ever been caught masturbating?
“So what do I say to her mum that walks in when you’re masturbating - ‘Oh I was just masturbating over you’? You know it wouldn’t really go down too well.”
Have you ever been caught masturbating?
“I felt like… well, you know, she’d caught me doing something that was my secret.”
How important is masturbation to you?
“I think you need to know your own body and you need to know what it is that makes you tick.”
Have you ever been caught masturbating?
“If it got to the stage where I needed to masturbate in secret, I would think that there was something I needed to say about the relationship…”
What was sex like during pregnancy?
“The actual intricacies of trying to get your stomach into any position whatsoever that is comfortable enough to be able to shag, is almost impossible. ”
What’s your most embarrassing sexual experience?
“There was one time when I sort of got caught masturbating but it wasn’t necessarily me it was a, it was a girl doing it for me...”
How important is masturbation to you?
“When you haven’t got a man in your life and you're finding it difficult to sleep... ”
How important is masturbation to you?
“If you don’t like yourself… then I don’t think you enjoy masturbating, but if you like yourself, if you like the body you’re in, then you’re gonna like masturbation a bit more.”
Have you ever been caught masturbating?
“I didn’t know how to handle the situation really, um… so I… think I made a little lie up and said I was making the bed!”
How important is masturbation to you?
“It was recommended to me a few years ago by a friend of mine. And that entails using, er, a power shower…”
“I don’t like the rubbery smell or sensation…”
“I’m getting all hot and aroused and just wish that there was someone in my bed there just for me to pounce on.”
How important is masturbation to you?
“It can provide a benchmark for what the other partner likes doing, how they like to be touched, what they enjoy doing.”
Have you ever been caught masturbating?
“By the time I sort of like opened my eyes and refocused I realised that, erm... ”
“You can do that by playing with yourself, you don’t really need a guy to do that for you.”
How important is masturbation to you?
“I do actually find it a big turn on when I wake up sometimes in the middle of the night and I know that he’s sort of caressing himself…”
Have you ever been caught masturbating?
“The worst thing was, we never said anything to each other afterwards.”
Have you ever been caught masturbating?
“He was shouting and my brothers friend was laughing and I was trying to pull my trousers up…”
How important is masturbation to you?
“That is really difficult question. It sounds really lame because it depends how busy I am. If you are having a super busy week I just come home and go to sleep and then get up again, shower, get up. ”
How important is masturbation to you?
“I have tried on many occasions but I end up laughing at myself …”
How important is masturbation to you?
“Masturbation is great but sex with someone else is even better. ”
How important is masturbation to you?
“I’m kind of sat there chocking the chicken really, really fast and then I pull them back up and get the train. ”
Have you ever been caught masturbating?
“I had to grab the nearest thing which ironically was a roll of kitchen paper and just covered myself and she knew exactly what I had been up to. ”
“I can grope myself but that's as far as it goes…”
“...it takes all the sexual tension and all the intimacy out of it when you are holding something that’s shaped like a cactus…”