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Alex, Eileen, Lisa, Matthew, Peter, Michelle T, Niv, and Ricki mention gay
Have you ever had an open relationship?
“What really, really gets me are those silly romantic people who seem to equate sex with love. Now that just makes me nauseous and sick.”
What’s the most sexually adventurous thing you’ve ever done?
“When you’re a girl and you go to a strip club, normally girl strippers let you be a little bit more adventurous with them than with guys…”
When were you sure of your sexual identity?
“I discovered my sexuality very early on, I was a very precocious child so my earliest memory of sexual activity is when I was in kindergarten.”
When were you sure of your sexual identity?
“Boys didn’t, didn’t interest me, but girls didn’t interest me either I was just like a bit of a tomboy.”
When were you sure of your sexual identity?
“I didn’t even know what a gay person was until I was 18, 19 and then to me it was completely alien.”
How did you lose your virginity?
“I was 35 years old in actual fact. Er, something of a late starter. ”
How did you know you were ready to lose your virginity?
“I thought I’d probably been ready for quite some time to be honest. I’d been aware of how I was, how I felt since I was about 9 years old.”
When were you sure of your sexual identity?
“By the age of 9 I was aware that I had definite interests in, as some would say, the male section of the catalogue rather than the female.”
“By that time I was certainly aware that I was homosexual and determined that it wasn’t going to be somebody else’s problem, I was keeping it all to myself and all under wraps.”
Have you ever had a problem using contraception?
“From my personal experiences you need to use protection regardless of whether it’s 2 men, 2 women and also straight couples.”
“The look on my mums face, she was very distraught and kind of just ignored it and walked away.”
What’s your most embarrassing sexual experience?
“...he said "oh that is it" and I was like "sorry but", it was really, really embarrassing…”
What’s your most embarrassing sexual experience?
“...he got up from the bed and he was turning around going "where’s the condom where’s the condom?"”
How would you describe an orgasm?
“I got up and I fell over on to the floor because my legs were shaking. I've never had it before and I would love to have it again. ”
Have you ever had a Sexually Transmitted Infection?
“ I went home and then he text me and said he was HIV positive and to be honest it shook my world and turned it upside down for a second. ”
Have you ever filmed yourself or someone else engaged in a sexual activity?
“When I got home and watched it again it got me a little bit aroused again so therefore I had to go back and do him again …”
“Shockingly I have paid for sex technically. ”
Did sex hurt the first time you did it?
“Taking as it were for the first time didn’t hurt as much it was more uncomfortable and it felt like I had passed a brick.”
Have you or your partner ever experienced premature ejaculation?
“It was when a guy once grabbed my crotch and was whispering really sexual things in my ear.”