WARNING: This site features very frank and occasionally explicit accounts of personal experiences of sex — parental guidance is recommended
Mike, Lusipher, KJ, Shirley, Nicky, Jo, Alex, Michelle H, Adam, Eileen, Chris, Lela, Jason, Lisa, Matthew, Annikka, Rob K, Peter, Marsie, Ann, Graham, Marie, and Tara mention foreplay
How do you get your partner in the mood for sex?
“I like trying to find out where the best parts or where the most nerve endings are to really trace around the body.”
“If you’ve made someone else come it’s like that is definitely you’ve had sex.”
What was the worst sex you ever had?
“She did absolutely nothing. I mean, she just lied there, she wouldn’t move, she didn’t want to get involved in any foreplay…”
“Something like role play or, you know, fantasies or dressing up, if I need to do any of that to keep sex interesting and exciting, I think there’s a problem with the sex itself. ”
How do you feel about one night stands?
“They are the simplest truest form of sex as far as I’m concerned. That’s two people no affection, using each other for sex.”
“I don’t think foreplay is that big a deal. I don’t really enjoy it.”
What gets you in the mood for sex?
“I don’t like faffing around, I don’t like being given hints, I don’t like girls doing all the trying to seduce me.”
What gets you in the mood for sex?
“I’m quite weak when it comes to sex anyway, so as long as I know what’s coming I’m semi there...”
“Foreplay is really important to my sex life, because I think it’s a build up to the actual sexual act.”
What gets you in the mood for sex?
“I like to be bitten on my neck.”
How do you get your partner in the mood for sex?
“I like to touch his penis and his balls, and like to massage him on his back…”
What gets you in the mood for sex?
“I’m actually very much a touchy feely person, I like to be kissed, I like to be caressed, I like to be stroked.”
Have you ever had a problem having an orgasm?
“I actually got quite good at faking it, so I didn’t realise what they were until…”
How do you get your partner in the mood for sex?
“I just have to look at him sometimes, a seductive look, a quick touch…”
“I think you’re asking such questions because you’re making assumption that I have some notions of seduction and romance, when I don’t.”
What do you worry about most when it comes to sex?
“It’s a little bit like going to a restaurant and ordering, say, meatball soup and then you find you only get one meatball.”
What gets you in the mood for sex?
“I’m a very sensual person. I really do like touch.”
What was the worst sex you ever had?
“Some girl tried sticking her finger up my bum cause that’s where the male’s g spot is.”
What gets you in the mood for sex?
“I’m alright for the first couple of seconds and then I’m just like that, boring. And it’s just the same repetitive thing. ”
How do you get your partner in the mood for sex?
“To get them in the mood it depends where you are and if I’m out and about I will always make a girl laugh, always. ”
Have you ever had a problem having an orgasm?
“I remember one time actually when it first happened, I thought what’s wrong with me, she was gorgeous you know. I should have been well away.”
“Reminding your partner of how sexy you are… you know, keeps lust alive within them.”
How do you get your partner in the mood for sex?
“A bit of a tease in the shower and then throughout the day I like to send sexy text messages.”
“No-one wants the monotony of, as my grandparents put it, the hokey cokey sex, where it’s just in, out and shake it all about. ”
What gets you in the mood for sex?
“Usually somebody who’s made a bit of an effort to obviously have washed, obvious as that may sound.”
“You’re not likely to have foreplay every single time, but I do think that foreplay, to me, can make or break the sex.”
How would you describe an orgasm?
“It’s kind of like the end product of what might be five minutes’ work, it might be whole day’s work. ”
What was the worst sex you ever had?
“He was a nice guy. Really big built. He had a nice physique. He was an electrician. And I just thought I could do with a little bit of electrical goods done around the house. ”
What gets you in the mood for sex?
“The old ears. Nibbling of those. Heavy breathing in your ear…”
How do you get your partner in the mood for sex?
“You might be doing the odd email. You know post has just arrived and you just think you know what I’ll send one of those saucy dirty text messages. And then before you know it…”
What gets you in the mood for sex?
“There’s one part at the back of my neck where, if you touch it, anyone touches, even myself touches it, I’m instantly horny.”
“For me there’s nothing better than a man who, basically, has no limits, and just loves a woman’s body.”
“I think foreplay has to be um something that’s negotiated or explored between two people for it to be as comfortable and as enjoyable for both of them.”
What gets you in the mood for sex?
“My partner has found the best way to get myself in the mood is in actual fact to go for a out of the blue full on frontal chest assault.”
What gets you in the mood for sex?
“For about 4 years it was vampires that I was obsessed by. I’d have to sort of watch a vampire DVD to build up to get in the mood for sex.”
How do you get your partner in the mood for sex?
“Stockings, suspenders … dress up sexily with some stiletto heels… you know, sort of surprise him when he came home from work… on the doorstep in a long coat.”
“I used to play sort of these games, and one evening my other half was working late and he used to live quite a way from me, so I would arrive at his house whilst he was at work.”
What gets you in the mood for sex?
“Basically I just can’t control myself, and it gets me going all the time.”
How do you get your partner in the mood for sex?
“Something I’ve practised for many years, and believe me it's always worked, it drives my fiancée absolutely... ”
“You can’t obviously work, study, raise children, do everything you do and still be what was it Jerry Hall described as "a whore in the bedroom"?”
What gets you in the mood for sex?
“My partner can get me in the mood pretty much with very little effort, with the touching, the flirting... ”
How important is masturbation to you?
“I do actually find it a big turn on when I wake up sometimes in the middle of the night and I know that he’s sort of caressing himself…”
“… it’s something for me that comes before sex it is a part of sex …”