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Lusipher, KJ, Rose, Michelle H, Lela, Jason, Ben, Rob O, Lisa, Matthew, Jackie, Ann, Michelle T, Tara, Mica, Shantelle, and Sarah mention awkwardness
What was the worst sex you ever had?
“She did absolutely nothing. I mean, she just lied there, she wouldn’t move, she didn’t want to get involved in any foreplay…”
How do you feel about one night stands?
“They are the simplest truest form of sex as far as I’m concerned. That’s two people no affection, using each other for sex.”
Have you ever experienced awkwardness after sex?
“They probably want me to stay around and watch telly and what not, but I’m not really I’m not really interested in that. ”
Has sex ever meant something different to you and your sexual partner?
“I know why I’m doing what I’m doing, and they think it’s... something else. ”
Have you ever experienced awkwardness after sex?
“You’re in the moment and you’ll say things and then once it stops you kind of resolve back to like normal life and you go oh hello, and then you realise what you’re wearing…”
What do you worry about most when it comes to sex?
“Do I look too fat? Do I look too thin? Is my hair OK? It all seems very kind of vain and aesthetic, but it’s important that you look OK and you feel OK.”
What do you worry about most when it comes to sex?
“It’s not the most attractive thing at all, and you know, the reason why it used to worry me is because I used to wonder whether my partner would find me attractive. ”
Have you ever experienced awkwardness after sex?
“I don’t have one-night-stands, and I don’t sleep with strangers, so anyone that I have slept with has either been a friend or a girlfriend.”
Have you ever experienced awkwardness after sex?
“I generally fall asleep I think, after sex, so I don’t really... ”
How did you lose your virginity?
“It was sort of really uneasy. Erm... sort of both, you know, tumbling around a bit.”
What was the worst sex you ever had?
“He was a nice guy. Really big built. He had a nice physique. He was an electrician. And I just thought I could do with a little bit of electrical goods done around the house. ”
Have you ever experienced awkwardness after sex?
“You wake up the following morning and you just think oh my god. I’ve slept with my friend. That has to be the most awkward thing on the planet.”
Have you ever experienced awkwardness after sex?
“The day my divorce came through is when we did it, um… and then after that it, it just seemed weird because I’d never done it before…”
Have you ever slept with more than one person at the same time?
“The first one was er… was awful, it was absolutely awful.”
Have you ever experienced awkwardness after sex?
“I mean a coupla bottles of wine, and we’ve had some great sex where inhibitions have gone, fell off the end of the bed, done all sorts of things we don’t normally do, and then the morning after…”
“If you say no then you end up either having an argument or possibly even losing that person, but then if you say yes are you saying yes for the right reasons? ”
Have you ever experienced awkwardness after sex?
“We were quite drunk and we were staying at my house, and she knew about me and she knew about my sexuality and she started asking lots of questions…”
What’s your most embarrassing sexual experience?
“…when the lights came back on again and my period had started unexpectedly and it was just all over. the place looked like a murder scene it was absolutely horrific. ”
Did sex hurt the first time you did it?
“… it was almost like square peg round hole really.”
Have you ever had a problem having an orgasm?
“"what the hell am I doing here, I may as well not even be here, part of this"”
Have you or your partner ever experienced premature ejaculation?
“I have been with someone before that has ejaculated far too quickly.”
Have you or your partner ever experienced premature ejaculation?
“Like, as in moments before penetration, which is, a bit too early really. ”