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  1. Il be 20 nxt yr april lost it early last mth (oct).....2 my boyfriend tho was painful, (i cried so much after) buh glad i did it with my boyfriend, we really like each other and seem to be going a long way in d relationship. my advice is be sure its wat u want @ dat time and it with som1 who respects and cares about u. I was in situations where I cud av done it wit guys i was just fooling around with (kissng) buh i didnt...soo worth d wait!!!xx”

    Posted by mina on 17th Oct at 8:00PM (flag as inappropriate)

  2. Im 16 :-)
    And I'm resisting all the temptations!
    x”

    Posted by Natalie on 16th Aug at 12:29AM (flag as inappropriate)

  3. Dear Natalie:D
    May i ask how old you are??
    And isnt it hard to stay a virgin, i meen with pressure and expectations?
    I am a girl, 14 years old, and a virgin.. I dont live in UK, but im still curious about the "habits"..”

    Posted by Signe on 5th Aug at 8:28PM (flag as inappropriate)

  4. I am a virgin - proud - by the way and I am waiting until I'm married, but all the guys on this website say they already lost it, not much hope I guess. I don't mind inexperienced guys, in fact I think its sexy and attractive when guys don't have sex drunk or too young. I just want a lovely marriage with a virgin (preferably, lol) where we can openly discuss things like sex and our bodies. I don't mind a few arguments, they are healthy, but I just hope and pray for a lovely guy who will respect and love me for who I am :D

    Fingers crossed :-)
    x”

    Posted by Natalie on 28th Jun at 12:16AM (flag as inappropriate)

  5. I'm so glad I came across this website and stories from men and women who have had the courage and patience to wait for their wedding night. It is inspiring for me to see these people talk as I'm a 27 year old virgin and would really like to sleep with my husband for the first time and always thereafter. I am still single and hope to find that special person although hope does dim sometimes when the world seems to have gone overboard with sex. It's also very encouraging to see teenagers who actually value sex within a marriage...it gives me hope to see that there are other people like me (o even older ;) when I was begining to think I was the "only one" and that I maybe wrong and silly to have waited for so long. Thanks everyone :)”

    Posted by Katie on 4th May at 1:04AM (flag as inappropriate)

  6. It is good that you lost your virginity when you were married.”

    Posted by Julie on 28th Apr at 6:42PM (flag as inappropriate)

  7. I think that this is a lovely story. It's a shame that so many of the other stories are so unlike this one.”

    Posted by Laura on 1st Apr at 1:21AM (flag as inappropriate)

  8. It's really grat to hear back from someone whos first time was on their wedding day. This is my plan aswell and at 21 it feels scary not understanding everything, but i'm excited about how special it will be for me and my future husband! :)”

    Posted by Megan on 31st Mar at 12:07AM (flag as inappropriate)

It was nervous time for me ‘cos I knew it was the first time for my wife as well. ”

Raj, 37

Sex facts

  • The average age when people in the UK lose their virginity is 16.

Other people answering How did you lose your virginity?

  • Video by Ricki

    “I had one too many Alco pops and went back to his place…”

    Ricki, 26

  • Video by Shantelle

    “After I done it I felt happy and pleased that I had done it and good but I didn't feel like I needed to do it again anytime soon…”

    Shantelle, 27

  • Video by Danny

    “All I can remember was one minute I was OK, next minute I woke up in a B&B and, er, this girl was standing in front of me.”

    Danny, 24

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