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I just want to tell my experience of losing my virginity. I lost it at 19 to my boyfriend of 3 months and I really think it was the best way to do it. I'm not a naive romantic who was waiting to be 'in love', I had many opportunities to lose it to a random guy, who probably only wanted sex. But having sex with someone that really cares about you, made it such a pleasant experience. Make sure you trust them and then you won't have horrible regrets. We're still together now and have an amazing sex life. I think that good sex is all about being open and learning each others bodies - without that then you're probably not ready to have sex. It can be embarassing and really is an intimate experience. So my advice is just to wait until you trust and feel comfortable with someone xx”

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Posted by lczapfn on 23rd Oct at 4:43PM (flag as inappropriate)

Hey im from Denmark i lost my virginity when i was 13 to a girl who was 18.. we were both drunk so i dont really count that as my first time.. now i am 22 years old and i havent used a comdom to this date, never got a sexually transmitted desease, so i must be one of the lucky ones :) But my advise anyway is to use a comdom i just saw the episode whit the deseases, and if i had seen that when i startet i would also have used a condom..”

Posted by David on 12th Aug at 8:06PM (flag as inappropriate)

hi am 15 now but When i lost my virginity i was 12 and he was 17 and he had a girlfriend it was at my friends sisters party and i didnt even know this guy i was so drunk and he plainly took advantage of me the next morning when people found out he just lied to them right infront of my face i couldnt feel more used i regreted what i done even till this day, i wish i waited till i was in a relationship and knew i could trust him rather than rushing into a one night stand i never did see that guy again, it just brings tears to my eyes to think there was someone that sick that could do that to someone so young well anyways to anyone who reads this just wait until your ready dont rush into it x”

Posted by michelle on 10th Aug at 5:04AM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 15 when I lost my virginity, I was on holiday, and I suppose you can say it was a one night-stand, I never thought much of it at that age, but now I'm 19 I do actually feel slightly ashamed of it. I seemed to be in a down hill spiral and would go home with pretty much anyone as long as they were good looking. I now really regret it, because I think do to me being 'easy' it could be the reason I've never had a relationship over a month. With age I have realised you get a reputation for this, and its a reputation you truly regret. Sex should be with someone you've been with for a while and you know and trust. A relationship isnt built on sex, its built on getting to know someone and knowing you have feelings for them. I strongly advise people to consider there first time. I really wish I had. You wont regret it when your young.It will be in later years.”

Posted by Audrina on 24th Jul at 10:47AM (flag as inappropriate)

i was 16 he was 17 and i sort of knew him i got very drunk at a party and went back to his free house.. we had sex 3 times in one night! i dont regret it because i was being bullied for still being a virgin”

Posted by Emily on 24th Jul at 12:08AM (flag as inappropriate)

I am 17 and I lost my virginity at my friend's party. I had never been to a party with booze. As the night went on, people I didn't know showed up. I ended up talking to a guy who was 22. We walked into an empty room and I felt pressured. My mind was unclear and I thought it would be good to not be a virgin, but another part of me was nervous and worried. I was drunk, drunker than he was. He kept talking to me and saying nice things. He spent 2 hours talking his way into my pants. We went on the bed and he took it from me. Then he left. Never to speak another word to me. The only positive part was that he used a condom. That was 2 months ago and I still feel stupid. I don't do things like this and I warn people not to do stuff like this. I feel ashamed and regret it - I turned into the dumb girl who let herself get used. He will forget me, but I will never forget him. In someways it is not fair. But that is what has to come out of this. A life lesson.”

Posted by Anna on 21st Jul at 6:21AM (flag as inappropriate)

I Lost my virginity at 15 to a guy in the year above who'd had sex quite alot before. At the time he was going out with one of my bestfriends and i knew he was off limits. we'd been going out for ages befor hand and i cared for him then but he seemed to be madly in love with me, he still kept coming round my house and kissing me when he was going out with my friend and he said he didnt love her he loved me. He talked alot about getting back together and how he was going to break up with her for me, one night he just turned round and said 'lets have sex' he ment it as a joke and i took it seriously, when he realised he was like okay then. So in that respect i chose to have sex there was no pressure at all i just felt like it was right at the time. The next day he was ment to break up with her so it wasnt cheeting but he didn't, as we'd allreaddy planned it, i didn't really want to go back on it. We were safe and it was painfull but i do regret sleeping with him while he was going out with her. It made it easier that he'd had sex before so we wern't compleetly clueless. What i want to know is, i havn't told my parents yet but does anyone think i should? Is there any point behind it?”

Posted by Anna on 27th Jun at 9:08PM (flag as inappropriate)

Carmella you will find that most women have been in a similar situation as you. Most of us have given in to pressure and had sex with a guy who we didn't really want to have sex with... At least once! Im afraid the only thing to do about this is to put it down to experience and LEARN from it. Don't self medicate by jumping into the arms (or the bed) of another guy who tells you you're pretty/nice/special ect. As that will lead to more of the same horrid feelings that you are feeling now. Instead build yourself up as a strong independent woman. Concentrate on making yourself feel good and empowered. Then when you feel good about yourself you will find that men will be falling over themselves to get with you. And because you have put some time into yourself, building your self respect, self esteem and making yourself a strong woman who can fend for herself, you will be able to say no to the idiots who don't offer you what you want and take the guys who are offering you what you want. It takes a bit of time to get this right - in fact some women never get it right sadly. Don't be one of those women! Make yourself strong and don't allow this experience to happen again. Take care x”

Posted by Joan on 21st Apr at 7:52AM (flag as inappropriate)

im fifteen and me and my boyfriend have'nt had sex yet, but we have talked about it a few times though. He told me that he wants me to be his first and that he doesnt care how long it takes for me to be ready, just along as i'm sure. His friends always tell me that he really loves me and respects me and my friends think he is the right one for me so i defenitaly want to loose it to him :) just make sure that when you do loose it, its to someome you love and that your ready and safe xxx”

Posted by chelsea on 18th Apr at 6:31PM (flag as inappropriate)

i have a close friend who is my age, 14, but has always been mature and moved fast, she had sex once unprtected and regreted it cried and took test said shed never do it again, but now its the first thing she goes to do with a boy after a couple of weeks, ive been with my boyfriend nine months and am concidering it but dont want to be like that, its still a big thing in my mind but obv not her's which makes me think ill get left behind, its alot of pressure,. any advice on loosing pressure or knowing when im ready?”

Posted by Charlotte on 16th Apr at 8:45PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 17 when i first lost my virginity - was in a strong relationship and had been dating for well over 6 months and was ready to have sex. I am so glad i waited because i was confident enough to make the right decisions like use of contraception it was great!! People dont get pressured into it best to wait until you know your ready!!”

Posted by Emma on 13th Apr at 3:16PM (flag as inappropriate)

i was 15 and over my boyfriends house and we had been together for about a year and a half. we had been talking about having sex for a while but never found the right time but one day his house was empty and we were fooling around so we thought why not? we ended up breaking up in the next month or two and i really wish would have waited because now im in a really stable relationship and i with i had lost my virginaty with him beucase it would have felt so much more special”

Posted by haylie on 9th Apr at 3:30PM (flag as inappropriate)

Hi, I lost my virginity aged just 13, I am now 14. I had been with my boyfriend for just over 2 months, but at the time, it felt like we had been together a life time. I truly did love him, even though I was young. However, I have told no one of this experience, I'm quite embarrassed by it, as we only lasted 6 months and I fell for the things he told me about 'forever'. I personally still class myself as a virgin, even though it isn''t tech. true. If I could go back in time, I wouldn't have done it, I would have waited, and I now am, waiting for the right guy.”

Posted by Joanne on 4th Apr at 8:04PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity a week or so ago with my girlfriend of 8 months! ever since then we have become much much closer and i know feel more protective over her. I dont regret anything about it, infact it was quite special :)”

Posted by Callum on 3rd Apr at 10:40PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity 9 years ago at the age of 18, to a friend on holiday. Bascially I wanted to know what all my friends were experiencing; I didn't do it out of love or a desire to be close.

I have learnt that the best sex is always with someone you trust and who you can take your time with. You need to relax deeply and have your hearts open to each other - just doing it for sensation/curiosity /to be cool rarely makes it worthwhile. The worst sex happens when you feel anxious, uncomforatble, pressured or you can't communicate with your partner - which includes being able to say you are scared or things are going too fast. Also, try to focus on your pleasure as well as his, and if you don't like something, just stop even if he enjoys it.

If you are still a virgin, don't expect fireworks, but try to make it a close and sensual experience with someone you trust. Your first few times really affect you for the rest of your sex life so it is worth waiting until you are comfortable and relaxed with someone you trust. If people are teasing you for being a virgin, they might just be jealous they can't go back and do it the way they wish they had!”

Posted by Charlotte on 3rd Apr at 2:41PM (flag as inappropriate)

I'm coming up to my 18th birthday and I am still a virgin. I don't feel that it's anything important and when the time comes that's fine, but at the moment it really isn't a problem. I just have a good time at the moment with my friends and serious relationships will come later in life.
Don't ever feel the pressure people, make it a special thing.”

Posted by Steph on 3rd Apr at 12:12AM (flag as inappropriate)

14,
On the sofa downstairs.
My mum was asleep upstairs.

”

Posted by Laura on 1st Apr at 11:57PM (flag as inappropriate)

My first time was lovely. I was 16 and my boyfriend was 17 and we were both virgins. We had only been together for a few weeks, in fact, it was our one month anniversary, but I knew this guy was special and that I was in love. The night it happened we had been playing about in my room and he asked 'would it be OK if I put it in, just for a second?'. I thought about it...my heart was racing with excitement and anticipation and then I said 'umm, ok then!!'. I was a bit concerned it might hurt so I went on top and it was fine after a few minutes. It ended with lots of kisses, hugs and 'I love you's' and we both felt really special to each other. After this great start we then went on to have a fab sex life - I still rate the sex with him as some of the best of my life. Unfortunately 18 months later I went to uni and ended the relationship before I left. However, we remained good friends and we still meet up 12 years later. I think part of the reason we had a great first time and sex life was to do with trust. It would have been a nightmare to sleep with a guy to find out he'd been bragging to his mates the day after and I was also very wary of being used. We were both straight and honest from the start and had lots of respect and attraction for each other - which laid the foundations for a great sex life.”

Posted by Sarah on 1st Apr at 3:16PM (flag as inappropriate)

I'm 20 and still a virgin, but I don't care. Usual story of waiting for the right girl. It's not like I haven't had the chance, I just don't see the point if I don't love them. My friends take the piss, but they do respect me for waiting. I definitely notice girls seemingly under a lot of pressure. Have respect for yourself. It's very easy for a guy to seem so genuine and perfect - he generally just wants one thing and you won't ever see him again”

Posted by Bryan on 31st Mar at 10:56PM (flag as inappropriate)

Oh my, this video made me so happy. I am 22 and I still haven't lost my virginity.
I fell just like Lusipher, I am not a prude, I just didn't want to loose it with some guy I didn't care about. Lots of my friends had negative experience and I refuse for it have that happen to me”

Posted by Laura on 31st Mar at 9:59PM (flag as inappropriate)

i was 13 when i lost my virginity with my sisters friend who was 15”

Posted by nick on 30th Mar at 9:58PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost it last night to my boyfriend of 6 months. Were both 19 and although the sex itself was OK (took a while to figure things out), it was the person who made it special. It brought us much closer, and I definitely don't regret it! I'm glad we waited. Can't wait to learn more and try different things!”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 28th Nov at 7:44PM (flag as inappropriate)

Stupidly enough, i was 13 when i lost mine.
I had been with a boyfriend for almost a year, first boyfriend. We were pretty much 'in love' at the time, but he was 16.
We were both virgins at the time and his friends were well obsessed with him doing it, but i waited until i felt ready, and when the time came it was ok. But now, i really wish i had waited because i've been with my partner now for 8 months, we have started having sex, but i'm still only 15, he was a virgin at the time and tbf, the first time we did it was the most amazing time ever, it was so special and i wish i had lost it to him like he did me to make it more amazing.
so basically, just wait for the truly special time and when you really are ready, cause i don;t think i was at 13... regrets regrets!!”

Posted by [No first name suppllied] on 20th Nov at 6:47PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 17 he was 25 and asked me to go away on holiday with him. I knew my parents would not allow this so we got married and went away. I lost my virginity on my honeymoon or so my parents thought ha ha”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 17th Nov at 10:17PM (flag as inappropriate)

We were going out for a few months, he was a soldier and I was 16 years old. One night we became rather close and I lost my virginity. He went away and I found I was pregnant so yes you really can get pregnant the FIRST time. However he was meant for me as we have been married nearly 28 years.”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 17th Nov at 10:13PM (flag as inappropriate)

Hey, im 15 and been in a relationship with my bf for 5-6 months he's a few years older than me. we've talked about sex but he hasn't pressured me into anything he wants me to feel comfortable and wants it to be special. I feel ready but have worries about my body as do most girls but he says he loves me just the way i am which reassures me abit more. some of my m8s have had sex but that doesnt bother me that was their choice and doesn't have to be mine if i don't want it to.

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Posted by Georgia on 15th Nov at 7:34PM (flag as inappropriate)

I am 21! and havent ever had sex until i went to uni. I am a bisexual male and lost my V to a close friend at uni he was 20 and only just came out the closet. It was the BEST experience of my life! The perfect gentleman, he had a candle lite bath waiting for me when i got home from a lecture, we took it nice a slow. We are still together and the futrue looks bright. Im glad i wait for Mr right - it was well werth the wait.”

Posted by Tom on 12th Nov at 1:30PM (flag as inappropriate)

hello alll i lost my virginity at uni with a boy wen we was fooling around and i wasnt ready for sex when he started running his arm down and up my thigh and it was getting awkward and he pressed me against the wall and stuck it in...it was slightly rape but i wanted it but not ready for it.......well then i found out that he was only hhaving sex with me cos he wanted a tenner! an idiot i was to believe that he would care so much for me....well i say thats life.....feel like a divv someone plz tell me why i should enjoy life as some one used me...??”

Posted by carmella on 11th Nov at 6:23PM (flag as inappropriate)

I am 16 and am still a virgin. At first I was embarrassed to be a virgin, as everyone around me (including my best friend) was having sex. I felt like the odd one out, and felt enormous pressure at parties and social things to always be on the look out for a partner. However, now that I am a bit older and wiser, I know that it is best to wait until I am in a relationship with someone I care about.”

Posted by Becky on 11th Nov at 4:51PM (flag as inappropriate)

I am 14. And i think that there is allot of pressure on sex in schools these days. Everyone is talking about it. Most people at my school lost it when they were like 13. Personally i think it is quite sick to loose it at such a young age, and i don't plan to loose my virginity until it is at least legal.. One thing that always pulls my strings is that my best friend lost her virginity when she was 15 to someone she had known for 2 weeks. She doesn't regret it and is in a relationship with him now. But because of that we are not friends anymore because i generally didn't think she should have done it (there are allot of other reasons that i fell out with her but this is just one). I am quite scared to get a boyfriend to be honest. I am very scared that a boy will ever see my body as i am very insecure.
But i honestly think that too many people too young are having sex with people they don't even know. But always stay strong and never let a boy or girl force you into it. (:”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 9th Nov at 9:39PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 15 & had been with my boyfriend for about a month and a half. My first time sex was amazing - he even made me orgasm! Now, a year later, we're still going strong, and the sex is still great.”

Posted by J on 9th Nov at 9:11PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when It was close to my 15th birthday. I regret it now though because at that point in my life everyone was telling me how great sex was and I think peer pressure was the biggest involvement of me loosing my virginity and now I wish I should have waited till I found the right person. I am not proud of what I did but I have accepted that everyone makes mistakes and cant turn back time.”

Posted by Amanda on 9th Nov at 7:15PM (flag as inappropriate)

i was 13 when i lost my virginity
i was only going ouy with the boy for a few months but i knew him since i was 6 years old
i wasnt ready but he was two years older than me so i didnt want to be seen as a little girl it was on a bunk bed with someone sleeping underneath (she fancied him as well)at the time i was in so much pain nd because i was young, we never talked about it in school so i never knew that you bled and it was so painful i also told him that i had slept with two other people before him which i didnt i did this to impress him (dumb idea) and therefore he thought i was fine ”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 8th Nov at 1:22AM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity a month before my 18th birthday. I'd been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half months. I know it sounds quick but for me it was the right time.
I have known him for 2 years now, we met at work. And we were really good friends before we started going out.
He's 18 and has had previous sexual partners; I didnt feel threatened by it at all.
Our first time was everything you'd want it to be. It was very special and I will never regret it. I saved myself completely until I found a guy that I really liked. I had no other sexual experiences before being with him and feel really proud that I waited for my 'One'.
He knew I was a virgin and made my first time so special. It was nothing like all the 'horror' stories you hear about, it was amazing.
It was really romantic and I couldn't stop smiling afterwards, at the thought that I'd lost my virginity to him :) I wouldn't have wanted to lose my virginity to anyone else. I love him to bits and I am so pleased that he was my first.
We've now been together for nearly 7 months and its very clear to say that we're in love :)
He will go down as my first love.
I'm so glad I gave my first love my first time.”

Posted by S on 6th Nov at 9:47AM (flag as inappropriate)

I am 18 and at university and yes!...still a virgin!... its not that I haven't had the opportunity's, its just that I haven't felt ready or haven't found the right guy. most of my friends lost theirs in school or just after finishing school, but because I can talk to my mom about ANYTHING I new that it was my choice and it made me a stronger person so I could withstand peer pressure. every time I speak to old school friends the 1st thing they ask is.... "have you had sex yet Ayesha!?" and then comes the... "why not? its not as big a deal as people make out" even 2years after leaving school!! I am not in a hurry to give it away because I've never had It so I don't miss it. I still have boyfriends and get "close" with them but I have boundaries n if they're not willing to wait there obviously NOT worth giving it to... people are always surprised when I tell them because I seem like any other student that likes to have a good time, lots have boys have tried, but i have self respect and I can see through guys who are just after one thing!! all that matters is whether you feel like its 100% right.... and I'm yet to feel that.”

Posted by Ayesha on 5th Nov at 1:35AM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when I was fourteen to who was my current boyfriend.

Not too good an experience.”

Posted by Sophie on 4th Nov at 6:03PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost my verginity at the age of 18 to my now husband. i had had a few boyfriends before this but it never felt right for me to have sex with them. even in a 2 and a half year relationship (needless to say he cheated on me several times)some of the lads did try to pressure me but you have got to stay strong and only have sex when it feels right. now i look back on loosing my verginity with good memorys.”

Posted by Becky on 4th Nov at 3:27PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 13 when i lost my virginity to who i thought was my best friend.
He obviously wasn't becausehe basicly raped me.I was too embarressed to talk to anyone because i felt it was me who was in the wrong but now i realise that it was him. I now feel happy to talk about how it made me feel and although it seemed unfair, i don't think he realises it has taught me that there are physco's out there, they could even be your "friends".
I am much more careful about who my friends are now!!!
:)”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 1st Nov at 12:30AM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity at 17. I was protected, but the condom split, resulting in my girlfriend at the time getting pregnant. I haven't had sex since that first time (6 years ago) and it has now become almost impossible to have sex again. I've been working myself up so much over it, I've even ended relationships because of it.”

Posted by Tom on 30th Oct at 10:38PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was really lucky. My first time could be said to be the fairytale first time experience. I was in a relationship with my first love, we had been together for two months, it was the morning after he had surprised me with a theatre trip in London for my 18th birthday, and the sun was streaming in the windows. I loved him. I was really lucky, because I trusted him and it is an experience I will never forget. I have to say thought that afterwards I kind of felt like all my worries and fears about sex were unfounded and like it really wasn't as a big a deal as I had been led to believe it was. I had always worried about it and been scared of it, and of boys generally. It had always been portrayed like it would be the end of the world if it wasn't with someone you loved and in the context of relationship. And I regret now that I spent so long when I was growing up worrying about sex. I think that says a lot about society and sex education at school and the atmosphere around it that it is still 'taboo' to some extent at least...”

Posted by Katy on 30th Oct at 8:44PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity at 14 to a boy I was with for a month and a half. It's weird because I was with that boy for 9 months and loved him dearly so ever since I haven't been able to have long term relationships, one night stands seem to suit me more. I've slept with 13 people and I'm 18, I known people with more and less and neither think bad of me.”

Posted by Harley on 28th Oct at 10:59PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost my viginity wen i was bout 16 and i ahd it with this guy who was nice and caring and i was wit him for bout 5 months and we decided to have sex so we did and it was sooo great...then that night wen i was sleeping he walked out on me
there i was lying there with no-one
it was a sad ending but i have a new boyfreind and i told him the story and he was sooo caring and said similar thoings happened to hi and i feell this is goin to work..i am now 23 nd i am happy in who i am ;'(”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 28th Oct at 11:14AM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when I was 15. Me and my girlfriend hadn't planned it. My house was empty and we were in my room and she said should we do it and I said yeah so I got a condom out and we did it. We had been going out for 6 months and it was special.”

Posted by joe on 27th Oct at 10:32PM (flag as inappropriate)

Ive Just Turned 15 And Am in Last Year Of School An I ant Lost My V right but theres loads of people in y year who have n am like :O
so theres alot of pressure but i dnt give in does that happen to most teenagers :)”

Posted by Rachel on 27th Oct at 5:26PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when I was 14, I generally stick to the idea of life that you dont have enough time to regret anything. But in this instance I was so wrong, it was the worst decision I have ever made. I split up with the girl a month later and felt like something that is so special had been rushed. Since then I have had 4 other sexual partners, which many people would say is far too many, especially because im only 16. I would just say that you should wait to lose your virginity, even if it seems right at the time, just imagine what you would think about it next week maybe.”

Posted by Ash on 26th Oct at 12:49PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost it at 15 in some woods near a lake with a younger guy I wasn't going out with or anything. He was just there. Oh don't worry - I knew him, he was kind of a friend. I don't wish I could go back, I'm happy.”

Posted by Ellie on 26th Oct at 2:33AM (flag as inappropriate)

I'm 19 and still a virgin. I feel that if I'm having sex i will be part of the adult world and not just a teenager. I haven't had a boyfriend since I was about 17 but we only just played with each other..it went no further. I want to save myself for a really nice guy who loves me but at the same time I want to just go and have sex just to say that ha, I'm not a virgin anymore! I'd be so embarrassed to tell a new boyfriend that i was a virgin. I think that it would maybe put him off me...”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 24th Oct at 4:45PM (flag as inappropriate)

i was 16 when i lost my virginity. to me, it was perfect, i had been with my boyfriend for 6 months and he never pressured me into doing it. we were just fooling around and then i felt ready...i don't regret it at all because i knew i loved him and was ready! im still with the same guy after 2 years...make sure your ready because it will be special :)”

Posted by H on 24th Oct at 11:51AM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity aged fifteen with my boyfriend of five months. We had been talking about it for two months before, and were going to leave it a little longer but we went to a party and he slept at mine afterwards. We were drunk, but I don't regret it because I remember everything and I think it kinda numbed the pain. The first time was okay - but the second time hurt! We did it five times after that.. so seven overall.. pretty good aye ;]
However we didn't use condoms which I do regret, but we both went to Base 25 after to get the morning after pill. It was fine, but messed with my hormones a bit - I cried over nothing one day.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for thirteen months now.”

Posted by Gemma on 23rd Oct at 2:27PM (flag as inappropriate)

to the 18 year old virgin who feels lame - DON'T!!! Just wait until you meet someone worthwhile - will make it all that more special - trust me as someone who lost virginity at 17 to guy who did not really care in his house, after meeting through his sister! Wait for a special guy who deserves you. Trust me - been non-virgin 30 years now - wish I had lost it with a special real man.”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 23rd Oct at 12:38PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 17 and it was all very impersonal - he had a bit of fun and was not very considerate - I had a poor experience and was in pain - bled for 3 days - not the best lover ever!”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 23rd Oct at 11:30AM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when I was 14.
I had been with my boyfriend, also 14 for about four or five months and he really wanted me to do it, but I wasn't sure.
My parents didn't like him and I wasn't sure if I loved him.
At the time, two of my close friends had had sex, and I felt behind, so I did it.
It was OK, but he didn't really love me, and I didn't love him. We did it a few times, the second time it got stuck inside me and I had to get the morning after pill, which was scary and I had to lie to my parents about where I was when I went to the clinic. However, the nurses were nice and I dealt with it.
Don't have sex unless you're really comfortable with yourself and with your partner. I never enjoyed sex with my ex, but I now have a lovely boyfriend of one year who I'm totally in love with and we have AWESOME sex!”

Posted by Rose on 22nd Oct at 11:30PM (flag as inappropriate)

I only met my boyfriend in August this year at a music festival. On the final night of the festival we swapped MSN addresses and then got talking the day after. I'd had a few rough relationships before where I'd felt pressured to have sex, but I always said no. But with him it was different. We got on extremely well and I soon found myself falling down a mountain for him. I trusted him with things I'd only previously told one other person and almost a month ago, we decided we didn't want to wait any longer to be together. The one problem with our seemingly perfect relationship? Distance. He lives in London, and I in Glasgow. He was visiting me this weekend though, and returned home on the 22nd in the afternoon and it was that morning that we had sex. It was the first time for both of us and we'd talked about it and agreed we'd feel comfortable. I've never been the most confident person about my body, and neither has he, but it was obvious that we were perfectly comfortable. It was pretty hard without using lube, but once we did he went in pretty easily. We stopped every few seconds because it did hurt a bit and I'm not the best with pain, but once he was completely in and the worst of the pain had subsided, everything followed on comfortably, naturally and it's one of the best things I've ever done. I wo't see him again until New Year, but I can wait.

I will advise you though, if you haven't lost your virginity yet, please do wait until you're with someone you genuinely trust and love because out of my whole group of friends who have lost theirs, I'm the only one who doesn't regret it because I'm the only one who was/is in love with the guy I lost it to, and I wasn't pressured into it in any way. As long as you trust and care for each other and mean it and are ready mentally and physically, there's no issue, whatever age you are. Meet these things, and your first time doesn't have to be the painful, awkward experience it's often painted out to be.”

Posted by Jennifer on 22nd Oct at 10:04PM (flag as inappropriate)

hey, im 13, and around where i live, its a major thing to have sex, i felt sort of pressured into it, by a 16 year old, i was really scared weather he used a condom or not. but he did. i wish i never though, the thort of becoming pregnant.”

Posted by danielle on 22nd Oct at 8:13PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when i was 15. I had been with my boyfriend for a year, and wanted to wait until i felt really ready. My boyfriend agreed with me, so we talked about it, and, although it was a bit of a cliche, we waited untill prom night. We stayed at a mutual friends house with someother people and in the early hours of the morning we left the group and went to a spare room. It was really romantic even if there were a few cringe worthy moments, mainly difficulty getting the condom out of the packet. I think I was really lucky with my first time and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years since!”

Posted by Stephanie on 22nd Oct at 7:03PM (flag as inappropriate)

I'm 18 now, and still a virgin. I feel really lame, especially knowing that everyone is having sex... It's really weird, I'm quite pretty and guys like me, but I just don't have a boyfriend to do it with. And I'm also scared of telling anyone that I'm a virgin because I think it's embarrassing, and that everyone will laugh at me or find me strange...”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 20th Oct at 9:24PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity about a month ago to my current boyfriend. I'm 16 and he's 23, but by no means did I feel pressured or like I 'had to'; I did it because it felt right and I wanted to. My boyfriend and I had talked about sex and he knew I was a virgin and he made sure he took his time and it was really special. Some of my friends lost their virginity when they were like, 13/14 and they just did it to get it over with, but I wouldn't change my first time for the world and it's definitely made me and my boyfriend a lot closer.”

Posted by Ella on 20th Oct at 2:05PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when i was 14, it was with my boyfriend i had been with for 6months. 2years later i'm still with him but our relationship has been the worst, were constantly braking up then getting back with each over, so now i do actually regret losing it to him, although i did love him at that time! my advice wait until your 100% certain of you & the boys feelings & relationship. x”

Posted by lou on 18th Oct at 3:03PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when i was 14. the strange thing is i had only been with the guy for a week and felt a bit dissapointed afterwards because everyone had made sex out to be such an amazing experience. i am now 17 and now i know why it was such a big deal. Sometimes i regret loosing my virginity at such a young age, but i also am rather glad i did because it has made me the person i am today”

Posted by charlotte on 17th Oct at 2:43PM (flag as inappropriate)

I just lost my virginity in May and i only knew the guy for 3 weeks and we have only been in the relationship for 2 weeks havn't told my mother becuase she really didn't like the guy i was going out with at the time. I've only slept with that one guy but he was 22 and I'm 16..
I did regret it when he decided to dump me 2 days after then he tried to pin the blame on me saying that i didn't love him and things like that. I thought i was ready to have sex and he coaxed me into it.He obviously just wanted a quick go with a virgin then dump me and he totally forgot about my emotions but he really didn't care so I advise anyone who is going to sleep with someone new to ask themselves if they are emotionally attached and that their partner feels the same way.”

Posted by Ray on 17th Oct at 5:01AM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity not long after I turned 14. It was to an 18 year old man who, at the time, was the perfect partner. At the time, and for a whie after I felt amazing, I really thought I was grown up. Now, looking back, I've realised what a horrible mistake I made, and I regret loosing my virginity so young and in such a careless way! My advice to any one would be to wait until there old enough to realise what they are getting themselves into.”

Posted by Tiffany on 16th Oct at 8:23PM (flag as inappropriate)

Im 17 and lost my vignity at 16! I was with my boyfriend for 1 and a half years. I was very much in love with him. We have split up but i'm with another guy who I love to bits and having sex with him is just amazing. x”

Posted by Leah on 16th Oct at 7:41PM (flag as inappropriate)

does it mean you're not a virgin if you break your own sexwall?”

Posted by emily on 16th Oct at 3:50PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when I was 14 I do wish I waited for the right person but all my friends were doing it so I thought I had to. Now I'm with someone I really love sex is so much better.”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 16th Oct at 9:42AM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 14. I had been with my boyfriend for around 2 or 3 months. All started getting passionate so, took him to my bedroom because I thought that was what he wanted. I just remember staring at my bedroom clock and wishing it would be over. I eventually pushed him off because it hurt so bad. After that, we'd have sex but on his terms, I never wanted to, but he'd always reach over to his wallet for a condom so i'd give in.

Since then I've always had really bad experiences.”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 16th Oct at 9:23AM (flag as inappropriate)

I fill liek i need to lose my virginity soon. But some flims on here have lost it bettween 19-23 which i feel liek they shoudl be quite proud im 14 and i want to lose it when im 16 but maybe i might wiat a little longer.”

Posted by sophie on 15th Oct at 8:45PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when i was 15 with a guy i had been dating for about 3 months. I found it extremely painful and knew he wasnt a virgin but it didnt make it any less special. We slept together one day when his mum had gone out to do the food shopping and it felt really naughty, especially when his mum came back later becuse i found it hard to look her in the face.”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 15th Oct at 7:00PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity at 19 to a guy who was 22. I was very drunk the night it happened I don't really remember much. The next day I felt numb. I slept with the same lad again a few weeks later and then i never heard from him again. I found out he had also had sex with a girl I knew and i felt so cheap and disgusting. I have had one sexual partner since then and it was again just a casual thing. I'm now 20. I stil feel so bad about how I lost my virginity as I wasnt like my friends as they lost it very young. I see this guy around all the time. we dont speak but when i'm drunk i get upset if i see him. its something I regret everyday.”

Posted by L on 15th Oct at 6:19PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost it at 48 Ha! (beat that)”

Posted by Jack on 15th Oct at 6:17PM (flag as inappropriate)

i was 15 and had been going out with my boyfriend at the time for 2months and he asked me if i was ready for sex i said yes and that was how i lost it, it wasnt exactly classy where i lost it but at the time i was happy and that i wasnt still a virgin . but wen i look back now i really regret where i done it .”

Posted by Jess on 15th Oct at 3:52PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginty at the age of 15 after being with my boyfriend a month and half, i don't regret it, we were together 5 months. But now i am 16 and in a serious relationship with another boyfriend, i took his virginty and i sometimes wish that he had took mine, as i have alot more feelings for him than i ever have anyone. Yet, i was ready when i lost my virginty, so in that respect i dont regret it atall. Just don't rush anything x”

Posted by Amy on 15th Oct at 3:20PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost my virginity when i was only just 15 to a boy i thought i loved even tho i knew he didnt love me,i went round to his house there was no foreplay or anything just sex , i regret it but at least i learnt the hard way and will find partners in the future who will feel they same way about me as i fell about them : )”

Posted by izzy on 15th Oct at 3:01PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost mine about a month before my 16th birthday.
we didnt see any point in waiting because we were both ready and in love :)
we had been together for 6 months so
knew each others bodys and feeling very well...
i'm still with the same guy and i don't regreat my first time at all :)”

Posted by Meg on 15th Oct at 2:41PM (flag as inappropriate)

i will be 31 in few months time and still proud to be a virgin. i have dated 2 guys, the first was when i was 18 and the other when i was 23 both lasted for 2 yrs and they both pressured me for sex but i have made up my mind not to have sex before marriage i belive its going to be worth it waiting for the right person if the guy cant be patient to have me as a wife before sexing me up then he is not good enough for ME. there is no point having sex with guys that are not ready to be committed.”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 15th Oct at 11:30AM (flag as inappropriate)

Im 16 and i lost my virginity a couple of months ago when i was really drunk at a party. I didn't know the guy but ive been with a couple of boys since and nobody has ever made me feel the way he did so i dont really regret it. However i told some people and it spread and he wouldnt talk to me after that, it was a shame cos i would like to know him better and do it again.”

Posted by amy on 14th Oct at 9:39PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when i was 14 to my boyfriend who was 19. We've been together for 2 1/2 years since. I wasnt it "madly" in love with him when we first did it we were just close friends and i trusted him. I love him very much now and never regretted choosing him for my first as he made me feel safe and protected. He respected me from the start.”

Posted by Kim on 14th Oct at 9:22PM (flag as inappropriate)

I atarted dating my boyfriend when I was 13 - he was 14. We grew up together, were best friends and spent a lot of time together. We fooled around - kissing and touching and when we were 17 we first had sex. We talked about it and were both ready. We were very much in love and felt very comfortable with each other. The first time was a bit awkward and we were nervous. The second time was better!! ;) that was in 2000 and we are now married and have a very healthy sex life x”

Posted by gemma on 14th Oct at 9:11PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when I was just 14 and have rereted it alot. I wish I had waited till I was older esspecially that it was with my best mates ex and her sister's ex for that matter. I did not want to I just wanted to maybe have a laugh with him but he just new how to push my buttons and I really didn't want him too. we weren't even going out!”

Posted by Sam on 14th Oct at 9:02PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when i was 15. I wasn't going out with my boyfriend at the time but we were like best friends and were kind of seeing each other for a few months before we had sex, He asked me out 2 days after we first did it and we have now been going out 7 months. I always said I wanted to wait untill i was 16 before i lost my virginity, but i felt ready when i did loose it, and it was to the right person.”

Posted by Bex on 14th Oct at 8:38PM (flag as inappropriate)

I met my first boyfriend when i was 15, he was 19. We started practicing things like oral sex and foreplay about a week in to our relationship. Considering id never even kissed a boy before it was rather fast i admit. However id always been alot more mature for my age. Three weeks after, we had sex for the first time, which i prompted. It wasn't as painful as i thought it would be. About two weeks after this, i called the relationship off because i knew i didn't love him, although he loved me. I dont and never have regretted my first time. I always belived that i wanted the experience, and get all the akwardness out of the way before i found someone i truely cared about. This paid off as in a years time i entered into a more emotionally serious relationship with a man 6 years my senior when i was 16. I was completely confident about having sex with him, and i enjoyed it so much more. I knew how to please him as well as myself. Im now 17, soon to be 18. From that first experience i have slept with 6 people. I do regret this in a way, although with every single one i used protection. I have had alot of different sexual experience and am now confident with my body and i do not feel awkward when it comes to sex. I have now decided though to hold back more when it comes to sex, before i was more intrested in the sexual aspect of a relationship, however now i am intrested in making a much more emotional connection with someone. I am about to enter a new relationship with someone i have been friends with for a number of years. I know that with him we will both have a strong physical and emotional relationship. I do not regret any of my experiences, although i really think it all depends on the individual. I would always advise anyone to do it with who they feel comfortable with, and when they feel comfortable. Without that you will most deffinately have regrets. I have hade 'sex' with some partners and 'made love' with others. You just have to figure out which one you want.”

Posted by Lucy on 14th Oct at 8:37PM (flag as inappropriate)

i had just turned 14 when i lost my virginity. i had been with the boy a month and i dont feel i got rushed into it and that is not why i regret it, the reason i regret it is because now i feel as if i am getting used for it we have talked about it and he denies it but i just have a wierd feeling about it, i am still conscious about my body infront of him and if i had waited it probably wouldnt of been like this. i wish i had waited but i am still with that boy which i am happy about, nearly a year gone. but maybe if i waited it would be way more pleasurable. so please i recommend people to wait and think about what they do before they act:D”

Posted by a on 14th Oct at 8:31PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost my virginity when i was 14 not really the best day of my life it hurt quite a bit!
it was with someone who was 17 i thought i loved him and he loved me i just thought how can he like me?
ginger chubby why would anyone like me!!
so when a 17 year old was intrested i just wanted to keep him he was so nice and caring but he had the gift of the gab.
it was so wierd it was as if he had a power over me so only a few days after we got together it happened at least i was smart enough to use contraception.
aft er he got what he wanted he ended it no suprise there then started dating my friend who was also a virgin and took hers 2 even tho i had warned her but i was infactuated with him i wanted to speak to him all the time i wanted to c him i was used n i feel i was taken advantage (just because my age no other way i wasnt forced) of but not like that matters any more as im 18 now and its all too late!!
to all the young virgins out there take it seriously its only there once! and if a older man/women comes along most of the time they want one thing and when they get it u will most proberbly be dumped its not nice and i felt so used but my parents didnt no so i didnt have anyone to talk to i felt so alone !! dont make the same mistakes as me”

Posted by morgan on 14th Oct at 8:27PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity at aged sixteen, I'd been with my boyfriend for eight months already and we had both been virgings. For months before my best friend, who had a much older boyfriend, had been pressuring me into having sex with him, but I had told her that we were both waiting. However, I did feel that eight months was VERY keen to do everything else, all of the time) and eventually we did have sex. He told me continually that he loved me and he was happy that he was doing this with me (take note chaps, its the kind of things girls like to hear, not the usual profanities!) and since then we've had a very healthy sex life. Definetly a good experience I can use as a good example for my kids when they're in adolescence.”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 14th Oct at 8:27PM (flag as inappropriate)

i first had sex when i was 16.. although at the time i was ashamed because i thought that sounded really old. i advise people to wait. i was ready and am so happy with who i lost it too.”

Posted by Lucy on 14th Oct at 8:21PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost my virginity at 15, in a very awkward way . i was not ready and felt very pressured, i can not say that i didnt want to as i did it . But that time and place was not right, I do really believe that loosing your virginity is not a big deal and the more you panic about it the worse its going to be. After that i did mess around for a bit and never enjoyed sex until i met my boyfriend and now sex feels so much better than it did before. I think to have good sex you need to have a connection with that person.”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 14th Oct at 8:16PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost my virginity when i was 14. i was on holiday adn met this great guy there, i was there for two weeks and at the end of the second week he suggested we have sex. i was glad that he had asked me and this made me feel alot more confident. i had have other sexual experiences with friends but had never gone all the way, so had very little experience compared to my older friend. in the end i thought about it and decided to give it a go. it wasn't the best sex ive ever had, but it wasnt as painful as some of my friends made it out to be. we started seeign each other when we both got back to england and have a fantastic realtionship for a year and a half, but it ended when he met someone else. my advice would be to wait for someone you have been in a relationship with and that you know really well, and dont listen to the stories your friends tell you, they may not be true to you...”

Posted by katherine on 14th Oct at 8:15PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 17, had been with this guy for a month, thought i was in love with him (lust more like it) we had been on a date, he was staying at my house (had to convince them to let him stay) he was sleeping on the sofa, my parents went to bed, we stayed up talking downstairs, one moment we were kissing then next i remember thinking "it's now or never"
It was a fumbled, slightly uncomfortable experience...worst part being hearing my parents bedroom door opening whilst it was happening (thankfully it was my mum going to the loo!)
That soon put an end to what was happening.
Thing is i felt ready at the time, i had been pressured in the past aged 14/15 and i said No.
Be comfortable with yourself, have the courage to say no if its not what you want. I'm glad i waited. ”

Posted by Faye on 14th Oct at 8:14PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was sixteen when i lost my virginity and although to some people it might seem very young. I was with my boyfriend at the time for two years. We did break up and i have remembered that night and i believe i will for the rest of my life so i would say make it specail in the sense that it is with someone you trust and respect. After all you don't want your first sexually experience to be a bad one.”

Posted by Mary on 14th Oct at 8:13PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 15 and it was with this lad i am still in love with, we did it on a bench after my best mates party, wasnt the best experience band i really regret it, iam still not over him, and we dont talk , i am glad it was to him coz i have never cared so much for somebody in my life as him,”

Posted by Louise on 14th Oct at 8:12PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity at 14. It was with my boyfriend who i had been with over a year. I was told that your first time is messy and painful, but it wanst at all. It might have helped that i have been horse riding for years and i know that it is possible to break your hymen in this way. We planned when and where for a while before, and we always talked openly about sex. He was a virgin to, and we always use a condom every time we have sex. I am still with him 2 years later!”

Posted by Anna on 14th Oct at 8:08PM (flag as inappropriate)

I had just turned 16 when I lost my virginity, it was with my first boyfriend and we'd been together 14 months. He took me away for a romantic weekend as my birthday present, to a lovely flat. It was a wonderful experience as i was in love with him at the time although it hurt like HELL. =S although we're not together any more and we dont get on, i try not to regret it because at the time it was perfect...and, well you have to start somewhere!”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 14th Oct at 8:08PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost my virginity when i was 13. i was very drunk and didnt think about what i was doing at the time. the boy who took my virginity had a girlfriend and i ended up pregnant - i was too young and decided to have an abortion. I did not tell my Mum i had lost my virginity untill around 3 years later when i was 16. within that time i had slept with other boys. i regret my early teenage years a lot. i am 17 now and i am sleeping only with my boyfriend who i trust completely. young teenagers need to stop and really think about the situation they're in & if they're ready to have sex with the other person, and if they're not - say no. if you think you are ready, then go ahead but please dont make the same mistake as me and risk getting pregnant and going through an abortion alone.”

Posted by Becky on 14th Oct at 8:07PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 14 when i lost my virginity it was with my boyfriend we had been together for 7 months. We were quite open talking about things. I don't regret losing it at 14. Now we have now been together 4 and a half years...”

Posted by Cloe on 14th Oct at 8:05PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost my virginity when i was 15 we were both the same age i knew it was the right thing to do. i glad that it happened. the relationship going to strengh to strengh. =)”

Posted by grace on 14th Oct at 8:05PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost my virgintity to one of my brothers friends, who was my age, and who i had dated a few months before. it was a month before my 15th birthday, and he was sleeping over my house. After this, we got back together until he cheated on me 2 months later. I regreted losing my virginity to him, because although i felt ready, i was too young to understand. After this i forgave him and we got back together another time and dated for just under a year before i found that he was with other girls behind my back. He then was telling everyone what i was like in bed and everything we had done infront of my new boyfriend. I wish that i had saved it for someone special, and thought about everything before i made my decision. i just hope other girls will read this and think twice about losing something so special.”

Posted by Rachel on 14th Oct at 8:05PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 16 when I lost my virginity, it was my boyfriend's 18th birthday party & we were staying at his mum's that night. Unfortunately he got very drunk...so I made him wait until he'd sobered up at about 3am! It wasn't the best situation, but I don't regret it at all, we were in love & were together for 2 years, he'll always mean a lot to me & we're still friends =). I'm very glad we were both each other's firsts & neither of us have regrets about it.”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 14th Oct at 8:03PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost mine at 15, when i was unbelievably drunk with a guy who i didnt know very well or even liked.
After it happened the guy spread it around and told everybody about what had happened.
Ever sinse iv been scared of going too far with guys, and it made me really shy.
bad experience.”

Posted by jess on 14th Oct at 8:03PM (flag as inappropriate)

The night I lost my virginity was pretty mad, I was 18 and had liked this girl for a long time, however I had never known she had felt the same sexually about me. We were at University and out clubbing as usual and decided that it was time to go home. We got back to halls of residence, said our good nights as usual, except with a rather un-expected kiss. She went into her room, and me into mine for about an hour before she knocked on my door and came in. We carried on where we left off both knowing where it was going, it was quite slow and not rushed, really great way to learn. Unfortunalty we had a huge arguement about a year later as we decided to live in a shared house with 2 more friends un our 2nd year. I'm sure we would still look back now and laugh about it all, I know I would for sure. Great memorable times!”

Posted by Dan on 14th Oct at 8:03PM (flag as inappropriate)

my first time was when i was at my mates houseparty and i was 13 i regretted it the next day i didnt know what to do i wanted to tell my mum but i didnt want to but then days late i told her”

Posted by erin on 14th Oct at 8:00PM (flag as inappropriate)

I went out to watch a england match at the local pub with some lad friends and ended up getting very drunk and ended up in the local nightclub. A lad I had known for a while carried on buying me drinks until I was so drunk the lads I had been out with told him they were taking me home, he said he would take me home and they let him. He took me back to his house and we had sex, I don't remember anything about having sex and just remember getting home about 5am. Although it was definitely not rape, I do feel I was taken advantage of, especially as the guy was a friend. It made me think twice about getting so drunk and trusting people! Now I rarely drink! What worries me is that there are loads of people that have been taken advantage of, and the only way to remedy it is education!”

Posted by Kayleigh on 14th Oct at 7:56PM (flag as inappropriate)

i was 14..was drunk on a night out..ended up going back to a house party , and i was unconsious and a boy i was kissing at the time took my virginity while i was lien on the bed..”

Posted by lauren on 14th Oct at 7:56PM (flag as inappropriate)

this year. I was 14, with the boy 2 months but liked him alot, felt a little pressured and had a pregnancy scare. now its the biggest mistake of my life and i feel stupid, used and dirty. but i felt ready mentally but physically i wasnt, i bled badly, so bad we had to stop. I now know how hard it is to loose your virginity, especially so quick and young.”

Posted by Jess on 14th Oct at 7:54PM (flag as inappropriate)

my loss of my virginity was thee worst thing ive done in my life, a one night stand with a boy i didnt really feel anything for, after this i got alot of stick for this and have regretted it from that day, i was 14”

Posted by Kate on 14th Oct at 7:54PM (flag as inappropriate)

i am 16 and lost my virginity at the age of 15 with my boyfriend who i'd been with for 6 months. i had absolutely no pressure from anyone, and we had talked about contraception before and both new we had to use it, even though we aren't all adult and sensible we still knew all about it. now we have been together a year and 2 months. i couldnt have sex as a one night stand as the love just wouldnt be there. with some one very special it really is an amazing experience, especially for your first time!”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 14th Oct at 7:54PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when i was 14 to a guy i had been dating for a month =O wish i had waited another couple of years”

Posted by S on 14th Oct at 7:52PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost mine 2 my finace and he did 2 me 2. when i was 15 he was 19 im 18 hes 22 nw we've been 2getha just over 3 yrs living together happly.
was about 6/7months in relationship wish did it in a better place lol
but i love him”

Posted by c on 14th Oct at 3:57PM (flag as inappropriate)

Well i was 15.. and was seeing an 18 year old and had liked him for a long time! we were talking in a friends bathroom at a party.. we started kissing and he randomly said lets do it now.. i really want to. he kept on and i couldn't think of a reason not to.. and it was in the moment..
i felt ready but was also very very nervous! i also feel gutted that my first time was a rush as you always want it to be special!”

Posted by Alice on 14th Oct at 3:41PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 21 when I first had sex. I'd messed around with a couple of boys before but it had never actually resulted in sex. I think it was the whole ugly duckling syndrome from being younger that made me shy away from boys when I was a teenager and kind of stuck with me into my twenties. It was probably the biggest anti-climax I've experienced. There is so much pressure put on girls to start having sex but really, losing my virginity was pretty boring and over within about 5 minutes - if that!
Sex since has been a hell of a lot better though. I never felt bad about having had not had sex when my friends started doing it. I'd neither actively seeked someone to sleep with nor avoided it either, it just happened when it happened. So, I guess the moral of the story is; even if you're 18 and you've not had sex yet, it's really not as big of a deal as we all think it is. My friends were all aware I was a virgin up to that age and non of them seemed phased or bothered by it what so ever. I was still the same person after all!”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 13th Oct at 3:34PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity earlier this year when I was 18. I had been seeing my boyfriend for about 2 weeks when we first had sex. Many people have said that it was too soon, but I didn't care because I felt ready. My boyfriend's first time was a one night stand about a year before. I had heard that it would be painful and i might bleed a bit but i am grateful to say this wasn't the case. I am still with my boyfriend-it's been nearly 8 months and the sex just gets better and better. Particularly now I'm at uni, it's great when he comes to visit : )”

Posted by Amy on 13th Oct at 3:28PM (flag as inappropriate)

My first sexual experience was one that I regretted at the time. I was 16, and drunk at a party. I lost my virginity to a boy that I didn't know. It wasn't particularly enjoyable, and we even got walked in on! We've become friends now, and fortunately, it's something we can laugh about.”

Posted by Louise on 12th Oct at 5:28PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 14 and it was with my then boyfriend, he was really sweet and didn't pressure me at all. It wasn't special to be honest, but I was glad I'd "got it out of the way". I don't know why I was so eager to lose my virginity, I think I just grew up faster than most. I don't regret it though, I could've picked someone a lot worse!”

Posted by Lauren on 11th Oct at 9:48AM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 21 when I lost my virginity, after watching lots of romcoms and teen dramas when growing up (Dawsons Creek is the main example!!) I realised that I wanted to wait for the right person. There was always a boy or two but no one special, I met my first time in work and we clicked straight away. We werent 'official' when I first slept with him but we did get together after, we were only together for 3 months but he made it a very special time for me. I was really embarrassed about telling him I was still a virgin as I was so 'old' but he was fantastic about it and Im definately glad I waited and would recommend other people to wait for that 'right' person! I will always remember my experience and it'll always be special to me!”

Posted by Melissa on 10th Oct at 7:12PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 14 when i first had sex and i felt so presured into it like kind of forsed. I regret it every day. Iv only slep with 2 people but im 20 now and with then love of my life.”

Posted by mel on 9th Oct at 10:51AM (flag as inappropriate)

im 18 and only lost my virginity last week to a one night stand i met at freshers week. i probably wont contact him again but i dont regret it at all...i didnt feel pressure from others but i knew everyone else was doing it so it was more personal pressure. it didnt really hurt just felt a bit uncomfortable! Ready to do it again though soon.”

Posted by rach on 8th Oct at 2:59PM (flag as inappropriate)

wel i lost my virginity at the age of 14 i thought i was in love but was sadly mistaken i werent dating him but he made me belive we were.”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 8th Oct at 2:38PM (flag as inappropriate)

i was 16 when i lost my virginity. i'd been with my boyfriend for a few months he was 19. he wasn't someone special but i was ready. and to be honest i didnt regret it. but im my husband's child-hood sweetheart and we only got together before we got married. and he still think i should have lost my virginity to him. but back then i wasn't thinking about sex.”

Posted by Anna on 8th Oct at 1:56PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost mine the day after my 16th birhtday on my mates living room floor, and i dont regret it cos it was with my bf at the time”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 8th Oct at 1:10PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 18 when I lost my virginity and I can honestly say that even now at 35 it was one of the best sexual experiences I've ever had! It was with my boyfriend who was also one of my best friends - absolutely perfect...I even had an orgasm. Sooo glad I waited!”

Posted by Caroline on 8th Oct at 12:24PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when I was 16. I was unfortunately rather drunk. I became pregnant from this first time (as the condom split). I regretted how I lost my virginity almost immediately, especially with the unwanted pregnancy (I had an abortion). Not great and I would certainly advise others to wait and be in a special relationship. I am now married and believe that sex with someone you love is so much better.”

Posted by claire on 8th Oct at 11:56AM (flag as inappropriate)

Well when i lost my virginity, it wasnt classy at all, i was 14 and i wasnt ready but my boyfriend insisted it would be ok, i lost mine in a park and i have regretted it ever since, we split up after that it was obvious he had no respect for me, people are best to waite until the right time and when the right person comes along”

Posted by Sarah on 8th Oct at 8:10AM (flag as inappropriate)

Well when i lost my virginity, it wasnt classy at all, i wasnt ready but my boyfriend insisted it would be ok, i lost mine in a park and i have regretted it ever since, we split up after that it was obvious he had no respect for me, people are best to waite until the right time and when the right person comes along”

Posted by Sarah on 8th Oct at 8:07AM (flag as inappropriate)

i had my first time at 16, she was a bit younger, however i didn't push her into anything, and i think she was even more prepared than me (it was her first time too)...we were together for 1 year when we did it for the first time, we both were in love and it was a very special occasion, we enjoyed it and became addicted to it! i guess the fact that we've been together for 1 year before doing it helped a lot as you know each other and each others bodies very well, and you're more likely to let yourself go without any psychological inhibitions...we've been together for 4 years before splitting up, and i don't regret to have had my first time with her...i've had a couple of ONS but wouldn't recommend it to someone who's still a virgin...don't rush, think twice, and decide for yourself if you're ready or not (here i come, you can't hide ;P)”

Posted by D on 8th Oct at 2:03AM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity at 18, my boyfriend was 16 but had already lost his. I never thought I should have lost it earlier. We had been together for about seven months and had talked about it alot. He was very insistant about waiting 'till I was ready and never tried to pressure me in either direction. I remember friends saying I should 'just do it' cos it was great, and every time as soon as they'd left my boyfriend told me not to listen to them. He also refused to have sex if either of us had had any alcohol at all. I was really really lucky. We've just past the teo year mark and are still going strong.”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 7th Oct at 10:25PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when I was 14. It was the night before Xmas Eve (I always remember that! Haha!) and I went to a club with some friends, there was a guy there who I kinda knew but not that well and I ended up going back to his and 'doing it' on his lounge floor, nice! It wasn't what I imagined it to be like and I do slightly regret it now.”

Posted by Amber on 7th Oct at 10:20PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity at 15 with my girlfriend after 4 months together. We met on the internet and we went from first kiss to sex in 2 days while I staed with her. We'd fallen in love and we're still together now.”

Posted by Dan on 7th Oct at 10:20PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost it when i was 14.I hung around with alot of older friends and was quite mature so was seen as that age and acted like it. I went to a house party one night and a guy i loved but wasnt going out with was there. I got slightly tipsy and we began to talk and one thing lead to another and it happened.I think in a way i did it to show him how much he means to me. I wish i;d waited till i was in a proper relisionship with this person also i wish people around me would of influnced me like they did.”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 7th Oct at 10:10PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 14 when I lost my virginity. I had only been going out with my boyfriend for a few days. He kept telling me that he "loved me" and how "beautifull" I was. He made me feel realy pretty and special for the first time. So when I went to his house even though I didnt feel fully ready I had sex with him.
I regret it now It wasnt fun, I didnt enjoy it at all, I am now 16 and havent had sex since.”

Posted by Hannah on 7th Oct at 9:52PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 16 when it first happened it was with my boyfriend and it was in my aunts house and i was babysitting the baby was asleep so we went upstairs to the spare bed!we had no idea really what we were doing to be honest and it took him ages to get the condom on! funny really!”

Posted by Sophie on 7th Oct at 9:52PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my Virginity at 16 to my boyfriend. I am now 19 and we have a baby together we have been together 3 years going well so far.”

Posted by Sarah on 7th Oct at 9:46PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost ma virginity when i was 16 me and my boyfriend had been together for 10 months..and i dont regret! I am still with him and we've been together for nearly 3 years..Just make sure you are 100% of what you are doing, do not rush things there is always a time for everything :]”

Posted by Alexandra on 7th Oct at 9:41PM (flag as inappropriate)

Id lost my viginity at the age of 14 although i was quite young to have taken this step me and my girlfriend thought we were ready after we had been going out for four months before hand. We continued to be sexually active but i was always slightly worried about having sex after she had told me that she would feel a sharp pain around her lower stomach area during sex...”

Posted by reece on 7th Oct at 9:33PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost my virginity when i was 16 7 days after my birthday me and my bf of the time had split up so went out with a mate and had a few drinks and later that night we met up with some of her mates unfortunately the people she called her mates used to bully me in skool we all had a bit of a laugh but then one of them came up to me and and put his hand down my skirt starting to "play" with me he took me by the hand and led me off and next thing i no were in some bushes some where and he standin there with his trousers down i was to drunk to no what was goin on and scared coz i didnt no where i was so didnt want to say no incase he left me so it happened and during it i realised ive lost my virginity to a guy that used to bully the hell out of me and spit at me but was still to drunk and scared to say anything”

Posted by leanne on 7th Oct at 9:26PM (flag as inappropriate)

i didn't want to loose my virginity when i did. i wanted to wait untill i was ollder but the age of 16 i got raped by a 22 year old guy. I dont think i will ever forget it. it has made it has made showing emotions to my boyfriend very hard. Its been almost a year since it happened and not a day goes by when i think about it. In a way i put my self in that position and should have never trusted him.”

Posted by nat on 7th Oct at 9:26PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost it at 14, and it was rushed and forced apon me. i really do regret it know, but i am very aware about sex now, and the importance of trusting my partner.”

Posted by Bec on 7th Oct at 9:25PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 17 when i lost my virginity. I'd been seeing this boy, who was 15, for a few months and my Mum was going away for the weekend leaving me at home. I was in town with my boyfriend when he came out of a chemist brandishing a packet of condoms. I guess i felt a bit pressured into it, but thought 'why not?!' at the same time. He was lovely but inexperienced. It really hurt and I felt very upset and confused afterwards. I wish I'd waited until I was with my first real love (a year later) although it really doesn't matter now 21 years later and in hindsight!”

Posted by jane on 7th Oct at 9:22PM (flag as inappropriate)

I'm 15 now. I lost my virginity just a few months ago. It was when I went camping; to someone who i did'nt really like, I guess I wanted to get it out of the way! I was fed up of just having questions, and just thought, why not now? I just tryed it, and it did'nt hurt, it was enjoyable, and have'nt looked back ever since. people judge me for it, bt why should they? It's my choice.”

Posted by Lucy on 7th Oct at 9:17PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity at 15 to my boyfriend whom i am still with and we've been going out for about a year now.Although i wasn't pressured into doing it, i still wish i had waited because no one knows what the future holds even though me and my boyfriend have become closer than ever”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 7th Oct at 9:13PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost my virginity at 15, it felt right, as i was with the person for over a year in the end, and he meant alot to me. however now we dont really speak which is a shame”

Posted by Heidi on 7th Oct at 9:08PM (flag as inappropriate)

I actually lost my virginity when i was 15 and a half. I wasn't pressured into doing it just felt like i was ready and am still with my boyfriend whom i lost it with and he's now 17. It was really great and we've been together for about 8 months now although i regret loosing my virginity before i was maarried because no one knows what the future holds”

Posted by Brianna on 7th Oct at 9:07PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity with my boyfriend of 6 months just before my 16th birthday, i am so glad i waited for the right person because in my relationship before him my partner put me under alot of pressure and i didn't feel comfortable. Nearly two years on and where still going strong and although we don't get to do it much its always great when we do!”

Posted by Alice on 7th Oct at 9:03PM (flag as inappropriate)

most of my friends were having sex and i was the only one that had not had sex so at my friends party we got a bit drunk and well this boy came on to me and i just didnt stop but at the same time i didnt feel ready.when i told my mum wot i had done she woudnt talk to me because i am roman cathlic and dont belive in sex before marrage and i now feel realy bad and i wish i had not done it now but gave into peer pressur.i am 14 it happend last week.”

Posted by Bianca on 7th Oct at 8:57PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity at 16, ill be 17 in november, with my current boyfriend who im still with right now XD
Before we did it we talked about it to see if we were truely ready for it and if thats what we both really wanted. Its important that both of your are emotionally ready for sex and not to rush into it otherwise you may regret it for the rest of your life. I dont regret my first time and im very glad that i lost it to him”

Posted by Christina on 7th Oct at 8:57PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was nearly 16 and lost it in the best possible way in my view. I had been with my boyfriend for nearly 5 months and we were together for two years after that experience. We knew the first time wouldn't be perfect but were comfortable enough with eachother that we could laugh and joke about it.”

Posted by Kate on 7th Oct at 8:56PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity at the age of 11 when i was heavily drunk at a party. i really feel i shouldn't have done it, and wish i hadn't, but what's done is done”

Posted by Jonny on 7th Oct at 8:53PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity at the age of 14 (going on to 15), I know now that its was too young for me but im still with the boy that i lost my virginity, we have been together for 5 years now and i dont regret anything!”

Posted by C. on 7th Oct at 8:53PM (flag as inappropriate)

It was a week before my 16th birthday when i lost my virginity all through a misunderstanding. I suggested it thinking that he wanted it, not knowing that he didnt. He agreed thinking thats what i wanted. It's been nearly a year now and we've only just discovered that this was the case. Although this wasn't the ideal way to lose our virginities i honestly dont regret it as i know that he must have really loved me to have sex even if he didnt want to. I feel bad though, as i feel i forced him and he feels he forced me.

I dont feel we rushed it, for us this felt like the right time. Lots of you might not agree and i can see it from your point of view, but it has worked well for us, like i said its been nearly a year since and we're still going strong. :)”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 7th Oct at 8:44PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. We've been together 7 years and he is the only person I've slept with. We waited 2 months after we got together so we knew we were both sure. I didn't know then that we'd be together forever, but I knew that I trusted him & intimacy was comfortable with him. It wasn't always like this. In the first week I gave him a hand job & was completely unprepared for it. I ended up crying after I'd finished & my boyfriend probably thought I was a complete nutter! Luckily he seems to quite like nutters...”

Posted by Steph on 7th Oct at 8:32PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 2 weeks shy of my 16th birthday when I lost my virginity. I had been preparing to sleep with a boyfriend but we broke up and I was left feeling ready but undesired. I had never had any confidence about boys and I was never the one they wanted, so when a friend of a friend took an interest in me I was flattered. He was 17 and after alot to drink, most of which he supplied me, we helped me literally stumble back to his place where we started to have sex. I was too drunk to feel uncomfortable with what I can see now was blatantly taking advantage of me and when half way through he let another boy into the room (aged 18) I wasn't in a position to say no. My friends' sister came to get me when she heard what was going on and the next day I had to take the morning after pill, as neither of the boys had used a condom, despite (even in that state) me asking them to do so.

I have had 14 other sexual partners since most of which were casual encounters, either with friends or strangers. I have put myself in some very dangerous situations and have had my drink spiked in a club and been guilted into sex and statuatory raped on a semi regular basis by an ex boyfriend. I still have the insecurity I felt then, despite receiving alot more attention from the opposite sex then I ever though I would.

However, my current boyfriend is everything I never thought I would have. He knows everything about my sexual past and despite my considerable experience, being with him feels like I have never been with anyone else. More then once love making between us has felt like everything losing your virginity should be. So for those reading this who have had an equally bad experience losing your virginity or haven't done it yet, it isn't the be all and end all of sex. It took me 6 years and 16 partners to find what I was looking for.”

Posted by Emma on 7th Oct at 8:30PM (flag as inappropriate)

Both me and my girlfriend lost our virginity together at the age of 17. We had been dating for about 6 months and we had fallen in love. Sex was something we didn't want to rush because we cared a great deal for each other and we didn't want to rush into anything and spoil what we had. We both felt ready and decided we wanted to make it really special, so we decided to take a weekend away together. We booked a hotel in the beautiful town of Bath and paid for a day of pampering at the Spa. After a day of luxury, getting massaged we went out for a romantic meal at an italian restaurant. After the meal we couldn't wait any longer and thats when it happened. We went back to the hotel and we were all over each other. I know it sounds cliche, but we really did make sweet love. It was the best night of my life and I wouldn't of wanted it to happen anyway. Me and my girlfriend are still together, very much in love and still having amazing sex :)”

Posted by Carl on 7th Oct at 8:23PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost my virginity when i was 15, while he was 17. we were both drunk and i had a one night stand with a friend. i dont really regret it but i would of prefered to have it with someone i liked.”

Posted by Sarah on 7th Oct at 8:20PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when I was 15. I had been with my boyfriend for 4 months and felt ready. I'm still with him now after 6 years.”

Posted by lydia on 7th Oct at 8:18PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 13 when I lost my virginity. It was with my best friend and soon to be boyfriend after that, it wasnt rushed and we had a great time but after 2months we ended. I now feel like I should have waited for the right person because sex doesnt bring you into relationships, thats a mistake I have made before.”

Posted by Sian on 7th Oct at 8:17PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost my virginity when i turned 16 i was only with my boyfriend over a month but im now 17 and still with him i don't regret it i agree you should wait for the right person for your first time”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 7th Oct at 8:15PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost my virginity just after my 14th birthday. i was with my boyfriend for around 2-3 months and i wasnt pressured into it. we stayed together for another 6months then split up. were still good mates and theres noone else i wish i could have experienced my first time with”

Posted by danielle on 7th Oct at 8:11PM (flag as inappropriate)

I'm 15 and I lost mine the beginning of this summer. It was in a tent, with a guy i only knew from a distance, we spoke for the first time that night. We haven't spoken since, a decision made by him.”

Posted by Amelia on 7th Oct at 8:10PM (flag as inappropriate)

i was 9 when i lost mine :( im not proud i hate the fact that i didnt know what i was doin and i cant go back it`s annoying. I hope noone makes the same mistake i had started my period weeks before i had sex alot after that and got pregnant at 10 ive been pregnant 5 time`s now and i regret it.”

Posted by Steph on 7th Oct at 8:10PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost my Virginity to my 18 year old boyfriend who i was only in a relationship with for about a month when i was 13. It was in a park and i wasn't ready. It was sort f a way of harming myself but I didn't realise that at the time.”

Posted by Feydrah on 7th Oct at 8:09PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 15 and I met a guy off the internet and lost my virginity to him. I then got a boyfriend the week after and i lied to him and told him i was a virgin. I regret not loosing it to him in some ways, but if i hadnt met the guy off the internet i would not of met my current boyfriend of a year who is "internet guys" best mate. So i am happy with my desicion but I will always live with the thought that i lied to somebody i loved and that i slept with my boyfriends friend which is very akward when I see him.”

Posted by Emily on 7th Oct at 8:08PM (flag as inappropriate)

my first time really hurt, we were both virgins so we were both nervous. we tried to ues a condom but it didnt fit and i was on the pill so we just went ahead with it. i was only 15 at the time and he was 17 we were engaged and planned to get married as soon as i was old enough ... we never got that far ... my pill failed and i was pregnant after my FIRST time! i had a miscarage and we broke up as we were both too young to deal with it all i found out i was pregnant on my 16th birthday!”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 7th Oct at 8:08PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when I was 18. I'm gay, but being gay wasn't acceptable to my parents or friends, so I proved I was str8 by losing my virginity very publicly with a gorgeous girl who was in love with me, at a party.

We used contraception and I left the used condom on the floor to prove I was str8. I almost believed it myself, but I'm not.

I treated her shamefully by doing that, and I've regretted it since that day, but you cannot unring a bell. The worst thing is that she, too, was a virgin until that evening.

It wasn't romantic, it wasn't fun, neither of us reached an orgasm, but I achieved my selfish objective of being seen as a macho hetero 18 year old.”

Posted by timmy on 7th Oct at 8:08PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 16.I's been questioning my sexuality since i was 13. i was not in a relationship with the guy i slept with and he was a lot older than me, he was 36. We were just hanging out having a laugh and kinda got onto the subject of sex, and it just sorta happened, neither one initiated it. i felt ready, certainly wasnt pressured or pushed into it, and, it mite sound bad, but wanted to determine my sexuality. We slept together a few times, it hurt a bit but nothing major. The strangest thing is I didn't even kiss him properly. i don't regret it at all coz it was what i wanted at time and it was such a relaxed situation. I stayed in touch with the guy for a while after but we didnt have a relationship. We eventually lost touch. So that was losing my virginity with a bloke. As for my first time with a woman, it was with someone i was in a relationship with, we had been together a year, and it was very special at the time as we loved eachother. I've slept with other guys and women up until the age of 19 (im now nearly 22). I'm gay and in a long term relationship with a woman.”

Posted by kerry on 7th Oct at 8:08PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity three months before my 15th birthday with a 15 year old boy I hardly knew one drunken night. After that we got together and were together for about 3 months. We didn't have sex because I regretted the first time and wasn't ready to again. Later on that year I started seeing another lad and after two months I felt ready to have sex with him. That was December 2006, and we're still together now! I regret my first time, but because we only did it the once, when i slept with my current boyfriend for the first time, for me it actually felt like the first time, because we cared for eachother and had been together for two months already. I think a lot of 14-15 year old girls loose their virginity on drunken nights with guys they hardly know. My advice girls.. don't drink too much and be foolish enough to let it happen!”

Posted by Rachelle on 7th Oct at 8:06PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when I was 13, on Valentines 2002. I was in a relationship and the guy I was with was my best friend aswell. It was great, we had dinner and it was really romantic. I would advise people to wait until they are over 16 but I never regretted my experience. We are still friends now and laugh about it. I couldnt think of a better person to have shared this experience with.”

Posted by Kayleigh on 7th Oct at 8:06PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost my virginity in the back of a car in a car park, my mates say dont you wish you did it somewhere else, i say no because now i am older i have found doing it in a confide space quite pleasureable as long as your ready and with the right person. some girls worry about bleeding my opinion on this is that it is normal i bled on my first and i was fine after a couple of hours just relax and do what you feel comfortable in doing dont let any rush you in to it :)”

Posted by stephanie on 7th Oct at 8:04PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity four days before my sixteenth birthday to my boyfriend (who was 17) we were both virgins and had been trying to have sex for quite a while- we'd been together for about 4 months before we started trying. It felt right and i think brought us closer together and we've been together for nearly 6 months now.”

Posted by Liv on 7th Oct at 8:03PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity ahen I was 16 to my boyfriend of 11 months, and it was perfect. I'm glad I waited until I was with somebody who I knew I could trust and who I knew loved me. We're still together now and it hasn't changed anythng between us!”

Posted by Holly on 7th Oct at 8:02PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 16 when i lost my virginity on the night of my boyfriends 18th birthday party. We were both ready the only thing i would change is that i was quite drunk and don't remember much. We broke up not long after that. Luckly we got back together again and if we did not have sex then i don't think we would be together now.”

Posted by Lucy on 7th Oct at 8:02PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 13 and it was with somebody that I hardly knew. Thought I was mature and responsible at the time, but now it's something that I'm ashamed of and will always regret.”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 7th Oct at 8:02PM (flag as inappropriate)

I Lost my virginity at 15 after i had been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months, we are still together now, and it has been 7 months together. I do not regret losing my virginity under age as i feel it has had advantages on our relationship. Me nd my boyfriend are now alot closer than before, so we are feeling it has helped. It has also made me more confident in my body.”

Posted by Danni on 7th Oct at 8:02PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 15 when I lost my virginity to my boyfriend who was 17. It was very romantic, by a river with swans under a starry sky (even though it was quite cold!). It wasn't planned, it just happened and I do not regret it because I will never forget it.”

Posted by Jane on 7th Oct at 8:01PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 17 when I first had sex- with my boyfriend. It was perfect. I'm so glad I waited until I was ready and we're still together five years later.”

Posted by Amy on 7th Oct at 8:01PM (flag as inappropriate)

I Lost my virginity when i was 15, it didnt really go as planned, i wasnt in a relationship,the boy didnt speak to me afterwards and left me havin to get the morning after pill, i very much regeret not using a condom. and now wont have sex with anyboy until im ina stable relationship and protection is used. I can honestly say ive learnt from my mistakes.”

Posted by katherine on 7th Oct at 8:01PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was going out with a lad for a few weeks and i knew i was ready but then we split. I was 16. We decided to go along with it anyway just because it seemed the right thing to do. I don't regret it because I was definately ready.”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 7th Oct at 8:01PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 16 and my first time in a gay club, an attractive lady came over. She bought me a drink, we got chatting, had a dance then we went back to hers. it was an experience to say the least! But I can honestly say that i did it because i wanted to get it out of the way..!”

Posted by kate on 7th Oct at 8:00PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost my virginity at 13, it was rushed and i only did it to feel close to someone because i didnt have many friends and i got bullied at school - im now 19 and ive had sex with approx 80 people (mixture of men and women) if i could change the past i would have - ive taken the morning after pill 3times ive never had an sti and i get checked regulary which im very shocked about as i wasnt particulay careful with condoms when i was younger. ive had 3 different types of pill and ive had the implant.”

Posted by Sam on 7th Oct at 7:59PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 15 when I lost my virginity. Despite losing it to my boyfriend, I feel I lost it at the wrong moment. I was drunk at the time. However we are still together now and the only thing I regret is not being able to remember everything better.”

Posted by Rose on 7th Oct at 7:58PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was just 14 when i lost my virginity to my boyfriend who was 16, we'd been together 3 months and we both felt we were ready and had been talking about it for a while, but we hadn't done any type of foreplay before hand. All we had done was kiss and after we first had sex we still didn't do any foreplay for about a week, we were just to shy!! I definitely don't regret loosing my V's so early because I'm now 16 and we are still together .”

Posted by Jazzmin on 7th Oct at 7:58PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity 2 months before my 16th birthday, I was in a relationship at the time. Unfortunately he finished with me the next day, causing me to fall off the rails, within the next week i had slept with another 2 lads.”

Posted by Zoe on 7th Oct at 7:58PM (flag as inappropriate)

i was 14 and i was very drunk and had sex with my cousins boyfriend she dosnt no but i still feel really bad as there jue to marry in a month!”

Posted by kirstie on 7th Oct at 7:57PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 13 when i lost my virginity with a boy i'd been with for only a month. i didnt take it serious, and thought i was ready. however i did regret it.”

Posted by Lucy on 7th Oct at 7:56PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost it at 16, but it wasn't for any pressure from anybody. it was actually with a guy i barely knew, but i felt i was ready and above was extremely curious to try it! i grew up in Italy and it's a lot different there, i was the first one of my girl friends. I enjoyed, granted it wasn't perfect and i wasn't in love, it was fairly good. I'm 22 now and i still don't regret it, although having sex with someone you love is so much better!”

Posted by Katy on 7th Oct at 7:55PM (flag as inappropriate)

i lost my virginity with a lad older than me in the pub carpark. i was 12 at the time i did it because all my friends were doing it, so i wish i did not now!”

Posted by amy-jayne on 7th Oct at 7:55PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when i was 13.. me and my best mate were at the cinema when her ex came over with his mate.. my mate still really liked this guy so i went along with her.. that night she lost her virginity too.. i felt rushed into losing my virginity and regret the way i lost it..i did not use any contraception and had to have the morning after pill.. at such a young age i did not know where i could find this and had to ask my older sister.. i am now 17 and since losing my virginity so young i have been more responsible with sex and have only slept with 3 other men who i have been in a long term relationship with and have felt ready to do it with. i think younger people do not know enough about sex or where they can get a good form of contraception from..”

Posted by Miranda on 7th Oct at 7:55PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 16 when i lost my viginity, and i wish i hadnt. i was with a boyfriend who i had been with for about 3 weeks. he was 19 and it was xmas eve. He kept asking me if i wanted sex and i wouldnt answer him, so i just had sex with me because i was scared he was going to rape me. so really i was kind of forced to have sex, i regret it everyday ”

Posted by louise on 7th Oct at 7:55PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when i was 15, i'd been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months and he was just turned 17. I was completely ready and even though looking back now i cant remember the details, i dont need to because 5 years later we're still together!”

Posted by Katie on 7th Oct at 7:54PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 15 and I wasn't ready. we weren't together long afterwards. I wish I'd waited. I didn't have sex again untill I was nearly 18- when I was ready.”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 7th Oct at 7:54PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 15 and had been with my boyfriend for about 2 months, he was 18 and a virgin too. We wee very nervous and things were awkward to start with. We broke up after about another month but were still good friends and im glad i lost my virginity to the person i did as we were both in the same position.”

Posted by Haz on 7th Oct at 7:54PM (flag as inappropriate)

i was just 15 when i lost my virginity i had known him years and had been with him for about a month. i felt ready and dont regret it. he wasnt a virgin and was very sweet about it and caring although we didnt stay together beacuse we lived to far away but we are still goo friends.”

Posted by Hannah on 7th Oct at 7:53PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was sixteen when i lost my virginty when i was sixteen, and totally regretted it because i hoped it was going to be "special" and it was a one night stand with my best friends boyfriend after a drunken party and was in sum bushes. he got up and walked away after and i felt totally used. i wish it was something i had waited to do when i was ready, and not have done it because i felt left out”

Posted by Alice on 7th Oct at 7:53PM (flag as inappropriate)

i loset my verginity at 16, i wasn't ready but my boyfriend at the time didn't want to listen and i became pregnant and had a miscarrage. please take my advice if your not ready don't do it. the emotional side after is not nice”

Posted by kristie on 7th Oct at 7:53PM (flag as inappropriate)

ive just turned 18 and im still a virgin and to be honest im quite embarrased about it and dont no wether i should be or not is it wrong ? i think i feel embarased because all my friends have lost it”

Posted by megan on 7th Oct at 7:53PM (flag as inappropriate)

i was 13 when i lost my verginity and i wish i waited the main reason why i did it was friends saying i was the only one who was a virgin and i felt left out , it was one of the most horriablest things i ever did, and would advise anyone to wait to there alot older”

Posted by zoe on 7th Oct at 7:52PM (flag as inappropriate)

i losy my virginity we i was 14 i was with my boyfriend for 2 years and when i was 15 i caught pregnant with my son i was 16 wen i gave birth to him i do wish id waited because my life revolves around him now but hes hear now and i wouldent change him for the world im not with hs dad no more but hehis a good dad to him and thats all i could wish for.”

Posted by jade on 7th Oct at 7:52PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 14 when i lost my virginity, and had been with my partner for just 6 weeks, we went on to stay together for 3 years and are still friends now, I wasn't ready at the time, but i don't regret it.”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 7th Oct at 7:52PM (flag as inappropriate)

i was 15, was unsure on myself let alone someone else. Personally hadn't found my true persona, 2 days after being with a boy who was older and i didn't really care about, even about the concept of sex Regretted it for a year, now i don't at all as i learnt so much in that year. Mostly self respect and meaning of sex. And by the end of it, found my true persona and a first real love.”

Posted by alix on 7th Oct at 7:52PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lose my virginity when I was 17. Most of my friends had been having sex since they were 13/14- in no way did I feel rushed into having sex but I wanted to see what all the fuss was about. I wasn't attracted to the bloke I lost it to in the slightest but I have no regrets.”

Posted by Elouise on 7th Oct at 7:52PM (flag as inappropriate)

i was 15 when i lost my virginity, i thought i was in love, but i was in love with the fact that he was an older boy.When i lost it to him 3 days later he finnished me, he left me confused and emotinal.”

Posted by Natasha on 7th Oct at 7:52PM (flag as inappropriate)

i was 14 my first time,he was 19, it was in a field in the middle of winter, i was really drunk. we met up for sex a few times after that, since then i havent ever had sex sober and have now slept with 5 guys :(”

Posted by Ash on 7th Oct at 7:52PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 14 when i first lost my virginity. I was with my first boyfriend and i had been with him for 2 months. I'm now almost 16 and still with him. I feel it brings us closer and i have no regret that i lost it to him. But i did have to make sure i was on the pill and that he used a condom!”

Posted by Elli on 7th Oct at 7:51PM (flag as inappropriate)

My first time went really well, although I was veru nervous I had waited till we were married so I knew it was the guy for me. I knew there was a lot of risks involved because if we didn't have the sexual attraction we were stuck with it for life. Thankfully all went well and it was perfect.”

Posted by Elin on 7th Oct at 7:51PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when i was 14 i wasnt ready, i had been with my boyfriend a year and he was older then me. I felt kind of pressured into it as he was older.”

Posted by Natalie on 7th Oct at 7:51PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 14 when I lost my Virginity. It was A drunken one night stand that didn't go too well!! Im now nearly 16 and have slept with quite a few boys. I regret nearly all! So please if your a Virgin, take my advice and wait for the right person and the right time.”

Posted by Lisa on 7th Oct at 7:51PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when i was 15, i was with my partner for 3 months and it wasn't rushed at all. To me it was the right time and I think i made the right choice as i am still with my partner now.”

Posted by Amy on 7th Oct at 7:50PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when i was 12, i dont know how i feel about it. i was with soimeone i truley cared for allot. i know it sounds stupid! I wanted to. but i think maybe i wasted it? But he will never be forgotten to me.”

Posted by Lauren on 7th Oct at 7:50PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity at 14 and a half years. Looking back it seems young but i dont regret it at all. I had been with my boyfriend a year and we talked about it, and what we would do if it went wrong. I felt emotionally prepared and wasn't scared at all. Im really glad my first time was with him and in them circumstances.”

Posted by Sarah on 7th Oct at 7:50PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity about 2 weeks ago, I had been in a relationship for only 1 week.

Am 19

I dont regret who I lost it with I only regret that I had not waited longer in the relationship as it ended shortly after.”

Posted by Steff on 7th Oct at 7:50PM (flag as inappropriate)

My experience was not perfect. To be perfectly honest if I could turn the clock back I would have not gone out with the guy.
Basically as soon as I turned 16, this guy said he fancied me and me being stupid went out with him. 2 weeks later he was demanding me to have sex. I wasn't comfortable and kept on saying no, but one night he turned on me and raped me.
The next day he texted me asking if I was alright, and I told him to ...off! Few weeks later the guy texted me again asking me if I was pregnant!!!”

Posted by Charlotte on 7th Oct at 7:47PM (flag as inappropriate)

when i lost my 'V' i was 16 back in may i thought i was in love with my girlfriend but she used me for sex and i felt used”

Posted by James on 7th Oct at 7:29PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when I was 16 to someone I barely knew...a week later met my first boyfriend and soon had sex with him. Very soon, I shamefully admit I slept around, and got a reputation. 3 pregnancies later, and now 24...I work in the sex indusrty. I have had health screening and am now always safe, but I wish I had been more sensible. Wait for the right guy, and protect your dignity people!!!”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 7th Oct at 7:17PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 15 when I lost my virginity. I regret it everyday as i realise i wish i had waited until the right man had come along. My current boyfriend however waited until we were together and he seems much happier & more confortable about sex than i am”

Posted by Charlotte on 7th Oct at 7:12PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity age 14 to an 18 year old, i was pressured into it and then he dumped me the next day. It put me off sex for years after and regret ever meeting him.”

Posted by Natalie on 7th Oct at 5:47PM (flag as inappropriate)

When I lost my virginity it was a one night stand. I had just got out of a year and 3 month relationship in which we had decided not to have sex until we were both ready and as I was going away to uni we wanted to check we were going to stay together, he split up with me just as I was leaving to go to uni. I think I only slept with the one night stand to get over my ex. I regret it and wished I'd waited.”

Posted by Kelly on 7th Oct at 4:38PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 14 when i lost my virginity. I wasn't even in a relationship with the boy who i had sex with and we did it on a sofa in someone else's house. Not so romantic.”

Posted by Olive on 7th Oct at 4:06PM (flag as inappropriate)

I'm almost 20 andI still haven't lost my virginity. I don't think there's any need to rush”

Posted by Claire on 7th Oct at 3:31PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity at 15 to my then boyfriend. We'd been together 3 weeks (although I remember it feeling a lot longer) and had spoken about it a lot before deciding we were both ready. He's now my husband. I'm definitely one of the lucky few.”

Posted by Sara on 6th Oct at 8:04PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 16 when i lost my virginity, it wasnt rushed i felt ready i had been with my boyfriend for 2 months but we didnt stay together after that. We still talk now and are good friends but i wish i waited for the perfect time were i knew this was the person i would be with for a life time”

Posted by Laura on 1st Oct at 7:06PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity just after my 14'th birthday, it wasnt a rushed decision because me and my girlfriend had been seeing each other a whil and decided that we wanted to try new things, were both 15 now and things are still going great”

Posted by Matthew on 30th Sep at 9:13PM (flag as inappropriate)

im 16 and still havent lost my virginity. but the older i get, the more people in my school and year are loosing it and the more pressure im getting under. i was with a guy for 8 months, but we broke up because i wasnt ready and he felt pressure from our peers to have sex. i dont regret my decision, and i want to wait.”

Posted by sophie on 30th Sep at 9:02PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity at aged 14 to a bloke i didnt know, i regret it now i really wish id waited”

Posted by [No first name supplied] on 30th Sep at 8:09PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when I got married in my mid twenties. I know that I waited til the right time because I realised that virginity has a high price tag and I was not willing to give something away that was so precious except in the context of marriage.”

Posted by Juliet on 25th Sep at 5:19PM (flag as inappropriate)

I must have been around 13 and a quarter and i had been having these erges alot latley and this one nigh in an alley way me and this girl got together”

Posted by Rhys on 23rd Sep at 8:20PM (flag as inappropriate)

im 15 years old and i lost my virginity a few days after my 14th birthday. i really regret it and i was so drunk it wasnt even fun. the next few weeks i felt really down and i dont EVER drink like that again and i never had sex again till a year later with my boyfriend who i was with 3 months before we did it and now we have been together 8 months i feel really comfortable and i enjoy it, i just wish i had of waited till now to lose my virginity.”

Posted by rebecca on 23rd Sep at 8:19PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity when i was just 12, i met this lad from school and he was 15. i had a great time doing it but looking back i wish i'd have waited.”

Posted by sarah on 23rd Sep at 8:12PM (flag as inappropriate)

I lost my virginity at 13 to a 17 year old who i met at a night club. I wished i hadn't of lost it so early but, like most kids, all of my friends were doing it and i just wanted to be like them. ”

Posted by Claire on 17th Sep at 7:32PM (flag as inappropriate)

I think your absolutely right, thankyou very much for putting your experience on here, it has made me feel much better about the whole 'virginity' thing, thankyou very much”

Posted by Holly on 16th Sep at 9:48PM (flag as inappropriate)

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