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  1. Yes, I had an affair or two-the wife has no interest in sex any more and it really depresses me! She has no interest in keeping me interested in her and it really saddens me as I think that it should be one partner for life. I had been led to believe by her that women think about sex only rarely but this isn't true! The women I've met more recently have a healthy appetite and now I'm thinking that getting married to who I did was one of the worst decisions of my life!”

    Posted by jon on 1st Apr at 10:19PM (flag as inappropriate)

  2. i've ended a relationship in my head and heart before but not had the courage to say it to them out loud until i got to the point where i wanted someone else, i would never have cheated and never could, i've got such a high moral ground for myself i could never have lived with the guilt. i think you should always end it before you cheat because if the person you want to cheat with is worth it they'll understand.”

    Posted by sophy on 16th Sep at 9:49PM (flag as inappropriate)

I felt because I didn’t see a future for us, I almost in my heart had moved on.”

Lela, 30

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