“It should definitely be a yes because at the end of the day not all orgasms can be achieved through intercourse…”
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If you didn’t have orgasms you’d be questioning what was wrong.”
“It should definitely be a yes because at the end of the day not all orgasms can be achieved through intercourse…”
“You can do that by playing with yourself, you don’t really need a guy to do that for you.”
“If you don’t, then it obviously means that there’s something wrong with your relationship.”
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12 posted so far
i dont believe that having a orgasm is the be all and end all, i have been having a sexual relationship for about 5 years now and i don't orgasm all the time, i just loving the closeness and the loving part of sex.”
Posted by alex on 31st Mar at 10:14AM (flag as inappropriate)
I was with my Ex Fiance for 4 years and we were sexually active from the start and in that 4 years i only had one orgasm, the sex was great.”
Posted by Kath on 3rd Oct at 3:19AM (flag as inappropriate)
Ive been in a sexual relationship for 4years now, i think the best part of sex is infact the orgasm but theres more to it than just that. You should just make sure you have fun :-).....”
Posted by Mary-anne on 1st Oct at 5:37PM (flag as inappropriate)
I have been with my partner for six years. We have a fantastic sex life; however I don't necessarily always orgasm. It does in NO WAY signal a problem in our relationship, its more to do with tired, stress etc. Sex should be more about love and closeness. Orgasms shouldn't just be expected or taken for granted. I have on many occassions achieved multiple orgasms, it all depends on the mood.”
Posted by Fay on 28th Sep at 4:46PM (flag as inappropriate)
ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and Ive never had an orgasm with him. i admit itreally does fustrate me sometimes but unfortunatly i'm in love with the fella!!”
Posted by Gemma on 23rd Sep at 8:01PM (flag as inappropriate)
I THINK MEN AND WOMEN DIFFER ON THIS PART ... FOR MEN ITS THE RESULT OF CLIMAX, AS A WOMAN I DONT ALWAYS FEEL THE NEED TO ORDASM AS LONG AS IM SATIFIED WITH THE SEXUAL ACT”
Posted by vicki on 23rd Sep at 7:59PM (flag as inappropriate)
I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and if he dodn't orgasim i think it would make me feel bad. I mean, id wonder why, as in, is he turned on enogh by me etc. i also know that he is very aware of how much i enjoy sex and would be gutted if i didn't orgasm when with him. So i agree, i think its very important in a relationship.”
Posted by Lynsey on 17th Sep at 12:31AM (flag as inappropriate)
Hi I have never had an orgasm and i am worried about this , i have tried all the self touching etc and nothing has work, not all people have orgasms but for what I can determine is everyone can.....”
Posted by Jac on 10th Sep at 5:22PM (flag as inappropriate)
Sex isn't just about the end product, excuse me for being a bloke, but it's like a game of football, you can full enjoy and love watching a 0-0 draw.”
Posted by corey on 10th Sep at 4:12PM (flag as inappropriate)
For me, very important! More often than not I will climax with my partner.”
Posted by Jessica on 10th Sep at 2:46PM (flag as inappropriate)
ive been wit my fella now iancie for 41/2 years we had a great sex life and i really emjoyed myself but couldnt reach orgasim but just few months ago i did and it was amazin so is not the end of world itl just happen one day but dont let the anxiety ruin your sex life”
Posted by sarah on 10th Sep at 11:03AM (flag as inappropriate)
But no everyone can have an orgasm, I have been having sex for four years, steady relationship, and ive never been able to reach an orgasm, its not in my head, just some people cant, especially through penetrative sex.”
Posted by Sara on 9th Sep at 10:44PM (flag as inappropriate)