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Bisexual Female. Single. 39 years old. Age Virginity Lost: 18
What’s your most embarrassing sexual experience?
“…when the lights came back on again and my period had started unexpectedly and it was just all over. the place looked like a murder scene it was absolutely horrific. ”
“because I wasn’t actually looking for a meaningful relationship with them it didn’t really matter”
“… it’s something for me that comes before sex it is a part of sex …”
Have you ever talked to your parents about sex?
“...my mum did actually say to me once as teenager "now I would like to think that we are very close and we get on well and can talk about things like S E X” ”
“I don't feel the need to cuddle, I certainly don't smoke I don't feel the need to immediately jump in the shower but just to have some form of connection with the person you’re with.”
When was the first time you looked at pornography and what was your reaction?
“in porn actually you get a really quite ugly looking guys presumably because no on is really looking at their faces.”
What grooming do you do to your genital area?
“I am more comfortable knowing that everything is neat and not running amok and it’s the same with guys ”
Have you ever filmed yourself or someone else engaged in a sexual activity?
“It just looked quite silly seeing yourself doing those things.”
Do you think pornography reflects the realities of sex?
“The guy always seem to maintain the erection - no that doesn’t always happen at all and you know there is no excuse the term fanny farts going on.”
Did sex hurt the first time you did it?
“… it was almost like square peg round hole really.”
Have you ever been worried that you might be pregnant when you didn't want to be?
“I've been taking contraceptives since I was 18 but did have before then a split condom incident which put the fear of God into me ...”
Have you ever been concerned about your own or your partner's penis size?
“Guys are normally quite flattered if you tell them to stop so to me I am more concerned if someone is really tiny because ‘cos they aren’t going to be a fat lot of use to anybody …”
Have you or your partner ever experienced premature ejaculation?
“I have been with who have been a 30 second wonder which was quite frustrating for me but probably slightly embarrassing for them ”