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Straight Male. In a relationship. 19 years old. Age Virginity Lost: 16
How did you feel having an abortion?
“We’d split up before then and that was the only time when the condom had split. So I wasn’t too sure whether it was mine...”
What impact did abortion have on you longer term?
“It has changed my view on it. Before I would have tried to force the girl as much as possible to have had an abortion.”
What’s your most embarrassing sexual experience?
“There was one time when I sort of got caught masturbating but it wasn’t necessarily me it was a, it was a girl doing it for me...”
What’s the most sexually adventurous thing you’ve ever done?
“There’s an abandoned woods near where I live in Somerset, and I took sort of a girl down there once in my car... ”
“She sort of, you know, messed me about, played with my emotions a bit. ”
In your experience, do drink and drugs mix well with sex?
“It lowers your performance and also I feel that it’s really dangerous.”
How did you lose your virginity?
“It was sort of really uneasy. Erm... sort of both, you know, tumbling around a bit.”
How did you know you were ready to lose your virginity?
“At the age of 16, you don’t really know much about it and you’re not sexually mature as such.”
What do you worry about most when it comes to sex?
“Simply because it kind of scares me a bit because I’ve gone through it before…”
“If you don’t, then it obviously means that there’s something wrong with your relationship.”