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Gay Male. Single. 25 years old. Age Virginity Lost: Not listed
What does 'intimacy' mean to you?
“Intimacy means, er…”
Have you ever had a problem convincing a partner to use contraception?
“It really scares me the number of partners that I’ve had who have been quite happy to not even discuss safer sex.”
How do you feel about one night stands?
“I think so long as you and the other partner are comfortable in the knowledge that it’s going to be sex for the sake of sex and not as a prelude to something more…”
Have you ever slept with more than one person at the same time?
“They add an interesting dynamic to the event, I think, because… when there are just 2 people having sex, there is a sense of responsibility…”
“I think foreplay has to be um something that’s negotiated or explored between two people for it to be as comfortable and as enjoyable for both of them.”
How important is masturbation to you?
“It can provide a benchmark for what the other partner likes doing, how they like to be touched, what they enjoy doing.”
“I’ve always found it quite strange when people want to watch porn at the same time as having sex.”
“If I am bored, miserable, lonely, I will probably look for sex as a way to alleviate that kind of boredom.”