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Gay Male. In a relationship. 36 years old. Age Virginity Lost: 18 (with woman): 23 (with man)
What was the worst sex you ever had?
“I have never wanted to be somewhere else ever in my life, it just, it was horrible, it was horrible.”
What’s your most embarrassing sexual experience?
“We pulled over across into a lay-by, or thought it was a lay-by and then, um… ”
Have you ever been unfaithful?
“The same time that I had an affair, he went and paid me back by having more affairs in the same period of time. ”
Have you ever experienced awkwardness after sex?
“The day my divorce came through is when we did it, um… and then after that it, it just seemed weird because I’d never done it before…”
Have you ever slept with more than one person at the same time?
“The first one was er… was awful, it was absolutely awful.”
What gets you in the mood for sex?
“There’s one part at the back of my neck where, if you touch it, anyone touches, even myself touches it, I’m instantly horny.”
How important is masturbation to you?
“If you don’t like yourself… then I don’t think you enjoy masturbating, but if you like yourself, if you like the body you’re in, then you’re gonna like masturbation a bit more.”
Have you ever been caught masturbating?
“I didn’t know how to handle the situation really, um… so I… think I made a little lie up and said I was making the bed!”
When were you sure of your sexual identity?
“I didn’t even know what a gay person was until I was 18, 19 and then to me it was completely alien.”
Have you ever had a Sexually Transmitted Infection?
“It is horrible, it’s painful, you can’t pee, it’s disgusting, you get like a yellowy green pus…”
