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Straight Male. Single. 32 years old. Age Virginity Lost: 20
How do you talk to your partner about sex?
“I don’t drop hints, I can’t be doing with faffing around, if I want something from someone I’ll tell them. ”
What does 'intimacy' mean to you?
“Some people just see it as privacy but I think it goes on a much deeper level... ”
What was the worst sex you ever had?
“She did absolutely nothing. I mean, she just lied there, she wouldn’t move, she didn’t want to get involved in any foreplay…”
What’s your most embarrassing sexual experience?
“I inadvertently ended up having sex with 3 people from the same family.”
“Something like role play or, you know, fantasies or dressing up, if I need to do any of that to keep sex interesting and exciting, I think there’s a problem with the sex itself. ”
“I’ve felt used on many occasion, um, but I don’t see being used in the same way as probably most people will.”
How do you feel about one night stands?
“They are the simplest truest form of sex as far as I’m concerned. That’s two people no affection, using each other for sex.”
Have you ever slept with more than one person at the same time?
“The second time was probably a little better because I felt more confident, but then when I tried it again...”
In your experience, do drink and drugs mix well with sex?
“Drink, drugs can mix well with sex as long as you know your limits. I personally I’ve had sex on ecstasy a couple of times.”
How did you lose your virginity?
“I lost my virginity with a older woman, she was about, oh, mid 40s I think…”
“I don’t think foreplay is that big a deal. I don’t really enjoy it.”
What gets you in the mood for sex?
“I don’t like faffing around, I don’t like being given hints, I don’t like girls doing all the trying to seduce me.”
Have you ever had a problem having an orgasm?
“They tend to be the ones who are more likely to make a really, really, really big deal about it, like they think they haven’t done something right or they think you’re not happy with them”
“To some people they almost seem to be the be all and end all of sex, like they have sex to have an orgasm, whereas I have sex because I like having sex.”
“I don’t have a problem with using vibrators on girls or girls owning a vibrator.”
“I’ve got an incredibly short attention span, I find that if I’m doing the same thing over and over again with the same person…”
How do you handle a partner with a different sex drive?
“I did try keeping up with her and thinking you know what otherwise she’ll get bored or maybe something’s wrong with me. And it was just relentless.”
When were you sure of your sexual identity?
“I’ve had times in the past where people have questioned whether I’m straight, bi or gay and I can understand that because of how I come across.”
