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Straight Male. Engaged. 42 years old. Age Virginity Lost: 20
What’s your most embarrassing sexual experience?
“Er it’s something that, well you never forget, but it’s made me very, very wary now.”
“We stripped off and was walking around, we felt very, very liberated and free and I must admit it’s quite an arousing kinda sensation as well.”
Have you ever had an open relationship?
“I thought it was quite a good deal because the girl was a bit older than me, and I wasn’t over keen on her…”
Has sex ever meant something different to you and your sexual partner?
“I’ve even had one ex girlfriend said that she thought I was Robert Redford, and she imagined that I, Robert Redford was making love to her. ”
“I er was involved with a lady and she was buying me things and she offered to buy me a car…”
Have you ever slept with more than one person at the same time?
“It was a bit special because my fiancée had arranged a little surprise for me…”
How did you lose your virginity?
“We had a drink, and she invited me back to her house and, er, basically she seduced me!”
How did you know you were ready to lose your virginity?
“These days it’s old to lose your virginity at 20, but when I was younger it just seemed right to do.”
What gets you in the mood for sex?
“Basically I just can’t control myself, and it gets me going all the time.”
How do you get your partner in the mood for sex?
“Something I’ve practised for many years, and believe me it's always worked, it drives my fiancée absolutely... ”
Have you ever had a problem having an orgasm?
“I’ve never really had a problem having orgasms, but just to enhance it what I sometimes do is take the old wonder pill…”
How did sex change after the birth of your first child?
“I would say probably an absence of sex for about, say, six to, to eight weeks would be normal because it’s a big thing, having a baby.”
“One time my fiancée was in the room with me and she could see I was getting a little bit fruity... ”
“I haven’t got any problems at all, everything works, and I feel sometimes like if I was about 25.”
“My sex drive goes up and down all the time, if you excuse the pun! I mean if a naked lady walked in here…”
How do you handle a partner with a different sex drive?
“I once met a beautiful girl, and she was very, very nice, but she wasn’t as sexually active as myself…”