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KJ, Jenny, Shirley, Alex, Michelle H, Lela, Rob O, Lisa, Danny, and Claire
“That was probably my main concern before. Probably my only concern before. But now it’s actually happened…”
“It’s something that happens a lot at my stage of marriage and amongst my peers…”
“The older you get there’s this, er, about sex, people think that maybe you shouldn’t because you’re a certain age…”
“It’s a little bit like going to a restaurant and ordering, say, meatball soup and then you find you only get one meatball.”
“Do I look too fat? Do I look too thin? Is my hair OK? It all seems very kind of vain and aesthetic, but it’s important that you look OK and you feel OK.”
“It’s not the most attractive thing at all, and you know, the reason why it used to worry me is because I used to wonder whether my partner would find me attractive. ”
“Simply because it kind of scares me a bit because I’ve gone through it before…”
“My friends tell me that I need to get over that hurdle and that problem but I personally I can’t. ”
“There has been times where I haven’t and I’ve been stupid, and I think we’ve all been there as well.”
“I’ve had 3 caesarean sections and I worry about my stomach looking a it like a road map”