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Lusipher, Rose, Rob O, Lisa, Graham, Danny, Michelle T, Tara, Shantelle, Sarah, and Ricki
“I’ve felt used on many occasion, um, but I don’t see being used in the same way as probably most people will.”
“I mean I’ve done it, just kind of to boost myself esteem, but there’s no point because it always drops that further afterwards.”
“She sort of, you know, messed me about, played with my emotions a bit. ”
“You feel kind of connected to that person. Then you have sex with them…”
“I er was involved with a lady and she was buying me things and she offered to buy me a car…”
“It was a bit of a joke for me to lose my virginity... and you know, it wasn’t the way I wanted it to happen”
“The next morning she quickly rushed out of bed and was like throwing my clothes at me. ”
“because I wasn’t actually looking for a meaningful relationship with them it didn’t really matter”
“I've been single for a long amount of time and I've said that's it I’m not waiting for the one I'm going out tonight I want to have sex. ”
“I'd started seeing someone and it's turned out they've just wanted me for sex... ”
“...you like them as a person so when they give you a lift home and drop you off and that's it - you feel a bit used…”