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If you were to open my diary, you see I actually mark dates for sex. ”

Alex, 32

Sex facts

  • On average, Britons have sex six or seven times a month.
  • In the UK, sex lasts on average around 21 minutes, compared with 17 in Germany, 14 in Italy and 10 in Thailand.

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    “You might be doing the odd email. You know post has just arrived and you just think you know what I’ll send one of those saucy dirty text messages. And then before you know it…”

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