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Is masterbating 6 times a day normel or is it not normel and phoneing the tv chat lines and masterbating 3 times in one phone call

please help me, im 22 and for the past 6 years i have been sexually active. i dont know why but i just cant get a man to make me orgasm, it really gets my boyfriend stressed and he must feel like crap, i have used a little vibe 4 years ago with an ex which DID make me orgasm but not used one since, iv tried all i can think of, i just really need help

Hey Billie!,
Id like you to do something about the pressure of sex in a relationship, how long should your partner wait and how long should you expect them to be patient and not push you into having sex if you've only been with them a short amount of time whether it be you'r first time or you'r 3rd,4th,5th partner. Speaking from a personal experience with my last boyfriend i had only been with him about 4 weeks not even a month and he expected me to have sex with him straight away and then once i had when i was rather drunk (this was not my first partner) I felt like the only reason he wanted my company was because he wanted sex, his house mate and his girlfriend where having sex quiet alot Im 21 and yet i think it should be special not just for the sake of an orgasm!! & i felt like i was being egged on to hurry up by all of them and have sex with him because his flatmates girlfriend had on the night they had their first date! That just isnt me i respect myself more than that and I don't think its right that a man or woman who you havent been with for very long to pressure you into having sex after less than 4 weeks of knowing someone it isnt right, I waited nearly 6 months with my partner before the last one as i wanted to make sure he wasnt just interested in me for that!. women and men need to respect themselves and that of their partners, it'd be good if you did something on this! Thank you for reading this rather long ramble. But i think its important that teens and 20 something's respect themselves and their bodies, sex should and always should be special not just a quickie or because of peer-pressure whats cool about being a pregnant 16 year old?