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Being Yourself: Sexual Identity

Whether you're straight, bisexual, lesbian or gay, this isn't just some kind of label. These terms describe all-encompassing sexual identity and deep-rooted feelings. Confused? Well this video is here to help you navigate your way to your true identity.

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I'm Scared of Anal Sex

Everyone gets anxious about losing their virginity. Dr Rachael Jones speaks to a gay virgin who’s scared of having anal sex for the first time.

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Who Does What, What Goes Where?

Whether you’re straight, lesbian, gay or bisexual, this sex ed lesson looks at what kind of sex different people are having. With the help of Dr. Radha and two life models, Anna explores the ins and outs of the anatomy of sex.

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Your Gay, Bi or Other Questions

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There has been a rumor going around that I am gay and my friends think it's really funny. How do I tell them how much their jokes hurt without telling that I might be gay because I'm not ready for that yet ?

Georgia

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I'm Gay and I've been with my girlfriend for a year now but I'm still really nervous about going down on her. We have sex and she goes down on me all the time. I just get so nervous and don't know what to do. Can you help me?

Kate

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What would be advised for 24 year old man, who has never had sex or been in a relationship? Where do you start at this age If you have never had these experiences, but want to change that?

Sam 3 Comments

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I am bi and have always felt confident about this but, it doesn't matter whether I'm with a man or woman, I don't think I have ever climaxed. I am in a relationship with a man and I find my self 'Faking It' just so that he will finish. Am I broken?

Emily 1 Comment

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Hi, I am 30 years old, I have a girlfriend & daughter but I have a keen obsession with transsexual porn, not men! I brought a strap on for my gf which I enjoy as much or more than normal sex. Does this point to being gay or is it fantasy?

Alan 2 Comments

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Gay, Bi or Other Facts

  • The average ‘coming out’ age for young gay, lesbian and bisexual people is 14.

  • 9% of gay men and 12% of lesbians have suffered discrimination at work during the past 12 months because of their sexual orientation

  • 75% of men who have come out as gay or bisexual have told a best friend or online friend first. Less than half of those who had come out had told a parent first.

  • Only around half of gay men and lesbians feel they can be completely honest about their sexuality at work

  • Gay men are over one and half times more likely than lesbians to be threatened because they are gay

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