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when i masturbate i reach the moment when i should cum but nothing comes out - why might this be?

sam on 10 July 2011 4 Comments

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  • Hi Sam
    I started masturbating when I was 10yo, before I started puberty & experienced the same thing, I got the orgasm without ejeculation, this is because your body does not start to produce sperm until you reach puberty. Once I did hit puberty (12yo), the first few times I masturbated I only ejeculated a little bit of clear fluid (semen), this is also normal. Since then I have ejeculated normally. Hope this helps.

    Posted by Trevor on 12 July 2011  |  33665 people found this useful

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  • Or, it may be worth checking to see if your urine changes colour or becomes cloudy if you urinate after masturbating, as you could suffer from Retrograde Ejaculation = which is a rarer type of ejaculation problem. It occurs when instead of the sperm squirting out of the hole at the end of your urethra (the tube that passes from the bladder through the penis and through which urine passes) it travels backwards into your bladder.

    With retrograde ejaculation, you will experience the feeling of an orgasm, but produce no, or very little, semen.

    Just remember not to panic as the condition does not pose a danger to your health but you may want to consult your GP.

    Posted by Jack on 03 August 2011  |  0 people found this useful

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  • My boyfriend never cums. I've tried everything but nothing has worked. Is this normal? Does it mean that he isnt enjoying it?

    Posted by [No first name supplied] on 19 July 2011  |  0 people found this useful

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  • Hello, I started masturbating when I was about 10 years old - due to me being an early starter I was having wet dreams when I was 9. I'm 14 now. However this is me.

    In your case I would say that you have not reached the stage in puberty where your testes have not began to produce the sperm. So, give it a while, and it will... Don't stress. ;)

    Posted by Matt on 19 July 2011  |  0 people found this useful

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  • Hi Sam
    I started masturbating when I was 10yo, before I started puberty & experienced the same thing, I got the orgasm without ejeculation, this is because your body does not start to produce sperm until you reach puberty. Once I did hit puberty (12yo), the first few times I masturbated I only ejeculated a little bit of clear fluid (semen), this is also normal. Since then I have ejeculated normally. Hope this helps.

    Posted by Trevor on 12 July 2011  |  33665 people found this useful

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