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What movements do girls like when they're being licked out? I don't know what to do with my tongue

Joel on 17 October 2008 9 Comments

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  • Well I am female, and to be honest i think and all my friends i spoke to about it find it better if the males writes the alphabet with the tip of his tounge start slowly and get faster near the end of the alphabet

    Posted by [No first name supplied] on 30 October 2008  |  5 people found this useful

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  • Lots of great advice here already :-)

    I think it's good to start from the outside (the labia majora - the outer lips). Be delicate and slow first. The inside of labia majora - that soft, delicate, pink skin - is very sensitive so thake good care of that area too. Run your tongue around - from the bottom of one lip, up, through the top where labia meet (over the clitoris but don't touch it yet!) then down to the bottom of the second lip. Then procced to the labia minora - lick their edges, you can even suck on them gently (remember - GENTLY is the word). Then proceed to the sweet inside - the vaginal opening and the vestibule. She should be quite wet already. If she isn't, linger there for a while before getting to the clitoris. Insertin the tip of your tongue into her vagina can be a neat idea. Then go to her clitoris... Start slowly and delicately and you can build up pressure and speed from there. Inserting a finger or two in her vagina is a nice option - but pu them in facing up so when you bend them inside her, they'll rub her G-spot (it's a slightly protruding, a bit rougher spot about 1 - 1.5" inside the vagina, on its front wall). Remember to follow her clues, read her signs - you should be able to see/hear what she likes and what she doesn't. Be patient, be open to suggestions, be brave to experiment... And have fun! It's a fantastic experience, not only for the receiver, but also for the giver - it's deeply satisfying both physically and emotionally.

    Goo d luck!

    Posted by JJ on 26 March 2009  |  3 people found this useful

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  • The best advice i could give would not to get 'stuck in' striaght away! Teasing is (in my experience) great for girls and it can be good fun for you too. dont think its all about the pressure or how fast you go... enjoy it, have a giggle, put her at ease and you'll relax yourself.

    Posted by Mike on 22 October 2008  |  0 people found this useful

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  • Like the others have said, everyone is different. My one piece of advice would be to experiment with different tongue movements, but to try and use mainly just the tip of your tongue, rather than the wider part of your tongue!!
    My partner does lots of different movements, from up down rapidly, to left and right, to just teasing. Again, as the others have said, you'll know if she likes it!
    And don't be afraid to ask her if she likes it or not, she'll prob be relieved if she can admit to it either way, so that you can remember for next time!!
    good luck xD

    Posted by [No first name supplied] on 21 October 2008  |  0 people found this useful

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  • lick the clitoris in a round motion,start slowly and then get faster while inserting ur fingers 2 the vigana

    Posted by susan on 19 October 2008  |  0 people found this useful

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  • It depends on the female. Stimulation of the clitoris with the tongue is best and 9 times out of 10 has very good results. The clitoris is located where the labia minora meet at the top, above the opening of the urethra and vagina.

    Posted by Tia on 19 October 2008  |  0 people found this useful

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