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What is the average number of sexual partners that a person can expect to have in their life??

Abbie on 10 September 2008 206 Comments

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  • I'm 18, and since losing my virginity at 16 I've slept with 7 guys. 2 in serious relationships, 3 friends with benefits, and 2 one night stands. Although it seems like a lot, I know that I'm not desperate, and I only go for guys I'm attracted to. It may be more than other girls, but I love my body, and I respect it. I've always been safe, and the sex has nearly always been amazing :) No regrets!

    Posted by Sophie on 03 June 2011  |  6 people found this useful

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  • I'm female, 19 and had 6 partners. 2 of which were relationships, the otherwise were friends with benefits I suppose. Am now engaged to my current partner who has had many more partners than me - infact, most have been ons and he says he genuinely couldn't put a definite number to how many. I wish I didn't know to be honest as it makes feel pretty inexperienced, however we are very happy. As long as your happy with who you've slept with that's all that matters.

    Posted by jessie on 29 May 2011  |  5 people found this useful

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  • I'm 24 and my number is 43. I lost my virginity at 14 and my number went up during college.

    Posted by Leah on 26 September 2014  |  0 people found this useful

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  • im 18, and have currently slept with 23 people including females, 17 males if not including females. ive realised this is a high number for my age considering i lost my virginity when i was 15 years old. my question is, if im going to put it bluntly, am i a slut? 4 of them i was in relationships with and the rest are either 1offs or friends with benefits. i think personally i just enjoy sex. but would appreciate other people opinions on my 'situation', all opinions welcome.

    Posted by Yasmin on 02 September 2014  |  0 people found this useful

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  • I'm 36. I've had 5 partners, including my husband (before and after we got married.) Hubby and I slept together on our second date.

    Posted by Rebecca on 09 April 2014  |  0 people found this useful

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  • I'm nineteen and I have never had sex, so there you go! Some of the people above me are my age and have had multiple sex partners! It really depends on the person, and at the end of the day, it's up to you what you do with your sex life. Statistics are very irrelevant.

    Posted by [No first name supplied] on 30 March 2014  |  0 people found this useful

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