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I feel the exact same, i noticed when i was about 14, and now i am 16 and it worries me everyday. I have never been sexually active with a lad and this is why. i am so scared what they will think! Reading what some girls have put have made me feel abit more confident, because i to hate wearing a bakini because i think people will be able to tell &I also thought about haveing surgery.
Mine also seem to blister alot and can get painful, i really want to see my doctor about it but im scared of showing anyone!
Posted by gemma on 20 August 2011 | 14 people found this useful
Glad to know im not alone. Im 15 and Im not considering sex any time soon, however I've got long vagina lips and i get depressed regularly. I really hate it. I cannot wait for the day that i can feel confident.
I do believe these 'DV' Designer Vagina's that stars have make us women think they should be tucked in an amazing but we all know they come in All shapes an sizes. Me and my bestfriend are close and shes seen my body and said the exact same of what the majority of you lot have. That there is nothing wrong with my 'Lips' and there is no such thing as normal however its annoying because she doesn't really have any lips and its all tidy and tucked away. I've already told my sister im seriously considering surgery when im older although she says you'll grow out of it and a guy will love you for who you are however.. until that day my minds in two places.
Like i said its nice to hear from both men and women on this situation
Posted by Jessy on 18 November 2011 | 8 people found this useful
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Hello. When I was 15 I seen that I had big lips also and I didn't want to show anyone. I didn't no if I could ever! But I started to think this is the way I am and I started to love my slfe for being me. I'm 20 now and I had my fare share of boys and they like big lips. Way better then pron ones lol. I been with my boyfriend for 2 years and he's happy with them and says they feel much better this way! So don't feel like u have to hide because its not worth it love ur body because men do also lol hope this kinda helped thanks :D
Posted by [No first name supplied] on 13 April 2013 | 0 people found this useful
my vagina lips are soooooo big and I am always so worried that people are going to judge me, I know you lot are all trying to help and be comforting, but for a teenager that is constantly wanting to impress, I can't stop worrying. I can understand why some of you might say that if your that worried then have surgery... but im a total wimp, you won't catch me dead having it. I can't have sex for a couple more years, but im already panicking that people will judge me :(
Posted by millie on 19 March 2013 | 0 people found this useful
ive found that most men love a girls vagina to be different,an saggy lips look amazing,we have all seen porn but i promise u,not many men want that type of pussy that porn girls have..DONT WORRY YOR PUSSY LIPS WILL DRIVE MEN WILD..dont follow the norm.always be yourself..
Posted by simon on 04 February 2013 | 0 people found this useful
its hard not to feel self consious about my big beautiful lips sometimes, just because i know there are men out there who have only seen vaginas in porn where the women have tiny slits for vaginas, and it's concerning that some men get weirded out when they see something they havent seen before. big lips are not abnormal, and some of the men ive been with even think big lips make for much better sex than small ones. just as theres a range of vaginas, theres a range of preferences, so im proud of who i am.
don't get surgery, ladies. think of how many lovely nerve endings you have on your lips, purely evolved for your own pleasure. why would you want to get rid of that? ;)
Posted by jupiter on 10 December 2012 | 2 people found this useful