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My vagina lips are very big and hang down quite far, i had never been concious til the other day, when my friend said it was very big. Is it normal?

meg on 09 December 2008 99 Comments

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  • I feel the exact same, i noticed when i was about 14, and now i am 16 and it worries me everyday. I have never been sexually active with a lad and this is why. i am so scared what they will think! Reading what some girls have put have made me feel abit more confident, because i to hate wearing a bakini because i think people will be able to tell &I also thought about haveing surgery.
    Mine also seem to blister alot and can get painful, i really want to see my doctor about it but im scared of showing anyone!

    Posted by gemma on 20 August 2011  |  25 people found this useful

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  • Glad to know im not alone. Im 15 and Im not considering sex any time soon, however I've got long vagina lips and i get depressed regularly. I really hate it. I cannot wait for the day that i can feel confident.
    I do believe these 'DV' Designer Vagina's that stars have make us women think they should be tucked in an amazing but we all know they come in All shapes an sizes. Me and my bestfriend are close and shes seen my body and said the exact same of what the majority of you lot have. That there is nothing wrong with my 'Lips' and there is no such thing as normal however its annoying because she doesn't really have any lips and its all tidy and tucked away. I've already told my sister im seriously considering surgery when im older although she says you'll grow out of it and a guy will love you for who you are however.. until that day my minds in two places.
    Like i said its nice to hear from both men and women on this situation

    Posted by Jessy on 18 November 2011  |  16 people found this useful

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  • I'm 37, I've had relationships with women who have long lips, and it's never something to be nervous or ashamed of. It's completely normal and there are plenty of guys out there who either don't care, or find them very sexy.

    A guy who refuses to sleep with you because of long labia lips is immature and not worth your time or affection.

    Pleas e don't make the decision at a young age to have surgery down there just because you don't look like a porn star - porn is not normal, people don't look or behave that way in real life.

    Posted by dm on 27 November 2014  |  2 people found this useful

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  • My inner lips also hang out slightly. I used to be so traumatized about it that there were days that I sat at home ready to cut it off?! gross right?
    But seriously, I'm so damn happy my pussy looks and is this way because it's so sensitive that every time me and my boyfriend have sex I cum about 3 times at least! This may not be the same for all girls with longer inner lips but that's not the point. The point is that you are beautiful, big or small pussy and as sick as you will be hearing this... You will find someone who adores every inch of you. EMBRACE THE LONG LIPS!

    Posted by anna on 29 October 2014  |  1 person found this useful

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  • I have reallyy big lips and I'm 18 and I've been dealing with this for a long time now. I hate the way my vagina looks and I don't want to tell my mom or go to a doctor cause I'm afraid there gunna see me as a freak or something. I know all girls should be comfortable with there body and for the most part I am it's just I hate my vagina and I'm a virgin because of it. And I never will fully get undressed around any of my family or friends cause I'm afraid they'll make fun of me.

    Posted by bri on 20 October 2014  |  1 person found this useful

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  • I lost my virginity at 17 (month before my 18th), a few years before that I was worried what boys would think and was scared to let any one see let alone touch my vagina. I would hear people talk about "hanging Hams" at one point even one of my boyfriends sister would make fun of people that had hanging hams so I was afraid to get intimate with him, thinking they would laugh behind my back. My own mum even made jokes (she doesn't know I have one) all my baby photos show me with a "normal" vagina so I could never get why I had this "ugly" vagina but now I'm 25 and due to be married, my fiancé always tells me he loves me the way I am and every thing about me, he knows how insecure I get when it comes to my vagina but he cant get enough of it, he loves to go down there!!. He has giving me the confidence to start to like it. I still have a long way to go to love it the way he does but girls you will find a man who's loves you for you and every inch of you!.

    Posted by Han on 09 October 2014  |  1 person found this useful

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