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I'm 24 and watch porn every night and masturbate at the same time, however i can't cum without the aid of porn, can i stop this habit?

Mark on 30 March 2009 36 Comments

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  • psychologically if you get yourself into the habit of masterbating while watching porn over a period of time you will condition youself to cum with porn thus making it hard/impossible for it to happen without the visual stimulation. id advise you to now do the opposite, train yourself to do it without porn tadaaaa

    Posted by [No first name supplied] on 03 April 2009  |  12 people found this useful

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  • I have this problemm.
    i cant cummm during sex, and im scared. i need to stop watching porn ive had sex twice and she could make me cum. its horrible, porn is the worst thing in the world never start watching it EVER.

    Posted by Tom on 27 September 2009  |  8 people found this useful

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  • I have been doing masturbate for many years and i am 24 years old, to masturbate everyday is bad for penis and what is the bad effect for doing masturbation everyday?

    Posted by Samuel on 01 July 2013  |  1 person found this useful

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  • There is nothing about porn that tips the karma scale against you cumming.

    That said, the problem is that there is no stress or fear of judgement with porn. Whether you consciously acknowledge it, there is a freedom in watching/fantasizin g about plowing a hot 10. That will hit the right brain centers to cum on demand.

    On the other hand, a girl who is an 8, and is very much real, and very much has her own opinions and could gossip about you, etc, etc, is another story. That is not as safe of a situation to express yourself. Especially since it is external, instead of just (safely) internal.

    I find that I am most free to express and be in charge of my sexual performance, when I love the girl I'm with, feel safe with her, feel that SHE is safe to express my desires to (confidentially), and I feel in control of the relationship—not in any negative sense of "control", but feel like the leader/protector/co nfident man that she looks to for security.

    The problem is not 100% the fault of porn—it's a contributor, but not the core. The core is the safety and confidence of the situation.

    Posted by Reality Check on 18 June 2012  |  0 people found this useful

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  • if you dont want to watch porn then fantasize, think about someone really hot and imagine having sex with them
    For example my friends mum is fit so i think of having sex with her with her hands against the garage door ( It's different for everyone)

    Posted by Chris on 07 November 2011  |  1 person found this useful

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  • I have this problemm.
    i cant cummm during sex, and im scared. i need to stop watching porn ive had sex twice and she could make me cum. its horrible, porn is the worst thing in the world never start watching it EVER.

    Posted by Tom on 27 September 2009  |  8 people found this useful

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