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I have a problem sustaining an erection, and so after about 30-40 minutes of good sex, I go flaccid, the moment passes and as a result I am yet to cum during sex with my girlfriend and she feels it’s her fault. What can I do?

Harry on 14 February 2012 3 Comments

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  • I think I might face the same problem. I have heard that if you masturbate prone you can cause your penis traumatic masturbatory syndrome, whereby you've learned to masturbate wrongly strenghting the senses in your penis not to feel sensation and the cure is to learn how to masturbate supine. Masturbating supine supposedly trains your penis to feel all the sensations and teaches you how to orgasm. So ask yourselfs if you masturbate prone? Because it might be this.

    Posted by Mk on 02 March 2012  |  0 people found this useful

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  • I have a similar problem. I can get erect but it doesn't sustain. My girlfriend think's its her, but like you it isn't her, its me. What did you do to get around this?

    Posted by nik on 25 February 2012  |  0 people found this useful

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  • Very similar situation to Harry's = this is causing me anxiety as well as affecting my partners self esteem

    Posted by Richard on 25 February 2012  |  0 people found this useful

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