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i get a boner over men as well as women does it mean im gay?

[no first name supplied] on 24 October 2011 6 Comments

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  • No it doesnt, generally us males can get erections at any time during puberty n as toit being over males it may not mean you are gay, however if u find yourself becoming attracted to men then you may be gay/bi. Hope this helps :-)

    Posted by jonny on 31 October 2011  |  3 people found this useful

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  • In my opinion, simply feeling a bit sexually attracted to the same sex does not make you gay. It's when you think you'd actually want to be in a relationship with another man/woman that it actually means sh*t. Homosexuality/bisex uality isn't just about sexual attraction. For instance, I often find myself getting wet thinking about other girls, but I'd never feel romantically attracted to any of them, and get more excited thinking about men. It's just part of puberty- don't worry about it.

    Posted by Freya on 12 November 2011  |  2 people found this useful

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  • In my opinion, simply feeling a bit sexually attracted to the same sex does not make you gay. It's when you think you'd actually want to be in a relationship with another man/woman that it actually means sh*t. Homosexuality/bisex uality isn't just about sexual attraction. For instance, I often find myself getting wet thinking about other girls, but I'd never feel romantically attracted to any of them, and get more excited thinking about men. It's just part of puberty- don't worry about it.

    Posted by Freya on 12 November 2011  |  2 people found this useful

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  • I heard it is a sign you are in Puberty and your penis is growin so its noral :D + I have been havin the smae problem (Just hope its not somewhere awkard

    Posted by Jay on 06 November 2011  |  1 person found this useful

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  • No it doesnt, generally us males can get erections at any time during puberty n as toit being over males it may not mean you are gay, however if u find yourself becoming attracted to men then you may be gay/bi. Hope this helps :-)

    Posted by jonny on 31 October 2011  |  3 people found this useful

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  • Not sure....
    If you feel attracted to them, then you may be gay or bisexual.
    A guy gets on average around 10 erections/boners a day, so it could just be a coincidence.

    Posted by Inky on 30 October 2011  |  1 person found this useful

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