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How do I touch or rub my girlfriend's vagina so that she feels good or aroused? normally i rub and lightly pinch it through her clothes. i want to know how to play with it so that she feels good and turned on.

Nila on 27 September 2010 4 Comments

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  • I think the best thing to do is to talk to her and see what it is that she likes. The best way to meet her needs, make her excited, make her feel special and wanted and like you have taken your time out to care is by just experimenting with her body and finding out what she does like. The key is to TAKE YOUR TIME! and communicate.

    Posted by Laura on 25 October 2010  |  2 people found this useful

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  • oral is Fun & Feels good. But the clitoris can really hurt.
    my boyfriend really hurt me and he felt really bad Lol. But just Go with the flow is best (:

    Posted by Jess on 26 October 2010  |  0 people found this useful

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  • I think the best thing to do is to talk to her and see what it is that she likes. The best way to meet her needs, make her excited, make her feel special and wanted and like you have taken your time out to care is by just experimenting with her body and finding out what she does like. The key is to TAKE YOUR TIME! and communicate.

    Posted by Laura on 25 October 2010  |  2 people found this useful

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  • Hi - you really need to ask her... some girls hate oral, some girls love it and as for fingering etc, it really depends on the person... start sort of touching her clitoris (really gently) and then ask her to guide your hand or move her hand down to guide yours - she'll be more than happy to show you what feels good trust me.

    Posted by Ava on 07 October 2010  |  0 people found this useful

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  • The absolute best way is oral. If you don't do oral, make sure you are lubed up really well and move your finger in a circular motion around her clitoris, getting faster as she gets more and more excited.

    Posted by Marsha on 29 September 2010  |  0 people found this useful

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