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how do u finger someone?

callum on 07 October 2008 42 Comments

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  • One thing that is always overlooked during this form of heavy petting, is fingernails. They should not be long or jagged. They should be short with no sharp angles, and most importantly be clean.

    Posted by Chelle on 08 July 2010  |  3 people found this useful

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  • when i first got fingered at the age of 14, my boyf slide his fingers up and down my vagina until i got wet, and then he put two fingers up my vagina, and moved them slowly in and out in felt amazing, and then , he took it out and starting sliding his fingers up and down again, then he starting to rubn my clit, slowly and then really fast, its felt amazingggg!

    Posted by Ellie on 23 July 2009  |  2 people found this useful

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  • ive been going with my boyfriend for a year and im 17 n hes 18 he is more experienced than me.. but when it comes to finngering me he is amazing..i think rub for a while first then go in..i guess all girls are different but i feel the more deep the better :) hope this help x

    Posted by samantha on 29 July 2011  |  0 people found this useful

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  • You might feel stupid but you're best off asking the girl what she thinks is best to do so you know she is comfortable with it all. Go up and down, rub her clit, and tell her to say when she's ready to go inside. Then slide your finger(s) in but make sure she is wet first. Ask her to guide your hands to where she likes/wants your fingers to be.

    Posted by charlie on 05 December 2010  |  0 people found this useful

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  • One thing that is always overlooked during this form of heavy petting, is fingernails. They should not be long or jagged. They should be short with no sharp angles, and most importantly be clean.

    Posted by Chelle on 08 July 2010  |  3 people found this useful

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  • ok well first thing to do is kiss her then when your kissig tell her if she doesnt like anything your doing just to tell you to stop this gives he a chance and you a chance togo for it but if she doesnt like it she has control this makes her feel more confitable with you.
    then as alot of people have said slowly rub around her clit,trust me its good :L then once she is wet put one finger up if its yer first time/coupe of times this provents pain. then take your finger/s out the rub her clit at different speeds this is more pleaserable for the partner. the first bit is very important as it will make her more confitable the more confitable the more pleasurable

    Posted by jade on 19 June 2010  |  1 person found this useful

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