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How do i stop my boyfriend from ejaculating early while having sex?

jess on 04 May 2012 2 Comments

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  • I find that if you think you are not getting enough time then make foreplay more about you. If sex isn't lasting long enough then make the bit before much more exciting. Or alternatively I have found having little breaks in which he gives you oral or uses a sex toy on you stops him from ejaculating. Also holding the base of his penis not to tightly and not moving it like a hand job tends to stop them for a bit.

    Posted by Jessica on 20 June 2012  |  1 person found this useful

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  • I find that if you think you are not getting enough time then make foreplay more about you. If sex isn't lasting long enough then make the bit before much more exciting. Or alternatively I have found having little breaks in which he gives you oral or uses a sex toy on you stops him from ejaculating. Also holding the base of his penis not to tightly and not moving it like a hand job tends to stop them for a bit.

    Posted by Jessica on 20 June 2012  |  1 person found this useful

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  • You could try using condoms, there are condoms made particularly for slowing down male ejaculation. However, condoms make ejaculating difficult for most men because condoms make them go soft.

    If you want to use condoms, I would suggest using the ones I have already mentioned and thin ones.

    You could also try using a cock ring or both a cock ring and a condom.

    Posted by Jo on 25 May 2012  |  0 people found this useful

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