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Does being fingered for the first time hurt as much as having sex for the first time?

shawty on 19 September 2008 30 Comments

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  • When i first ever got fingered by a guy it didnt hurt at all, before he slipped his fingers in i gave him head and we kissed alot, i think that got me very wet so when it came to getting fingered it was great!! Im still a virgin but masterbate using my hairbrush, i know it sounds horrible but im quite young and if my parents found a dildo or something along those lines they'd be horrified, so my hairbrush does me fine. Im quite worried about losing my virginity and is wondering if it will hurt as much now that ive masterbated and been poked? does anyone know?

    Posted by Lucy on 08 January 2012  |  4 people found this useful

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  • I had sex yesterday on me & my bfs 3 month anniversary which was valentines day, i had to be wet first so we did lots of making out and kissing and rubbing then he slipped his fingers gently to touch my vagina it was ok, until he went deeper now note a boy doesn't really know how your feeling ( unless but the sounds ) so you can't blame him if he hurts you, but he hurt me - i love him so much & i found after the tense moment was over i enjoyed it but the beginning hurts like hell. Don't be scared that will just make it so much worse, and the pain will be partly stress :| i talked to him about it before & he assured me everything would be fine and it was! i love my bfs honesty! and now we are so much closer and more in love then ever! Just be careful it's painful yet enjoyable and totally worth it!

    Posted by [No first name supplied] on 14 February 2009  |  2 people found this useful

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  • When i first ever got fingered by a guy it didnt hurt at all, before he slipped his fingers in i gave him head and we kissed alot, i think that got me very wet so when it came to getting fingered it was great!! Im still a virgin but masterbate using my hairbrush, i know it sounds horrible but im quite young and if my parents found a dildo or something along those lines they'd be horrified, so my hairbrush does me fine. Im quite worried about losing my virginity and is wondering if it will hurt as much now that ive masterbated and been poked? does anyone know?

    Posted by Lucy on 08 January 2012  |  4 people found this useful

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  • It did't hurt for me and no it dose not hurt as bad as sex but thats just how I felt about it but it can hurt if he is to rough or your not tunred on enough .

    Posted by Cass on 04 May 2011  |  0 people found this useful

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  • i havent had any thing done yet to me but my boyfriend wants to fingure me and he says that he wont hurt me and im extremlley scared because every guy says it wont hurt and i trust my boyfriend alot we love each other im 13 i feel like im ready in all im just scared and i live right next to my bf so its kinnda hard for me not to talk about it to him he just says the same thing everytime

    i need help people what should i do
    should i let him or what

    Posted by [No first name supplied] on 19 June 2010  |  0 people found this useful

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  • I had sex yesterday on me & my bfs 3 month anniversary which was valentines day, i had to be wet first so we did lots of making out and kissing and rubbing then he slipped his fingers gently to touch my vagina it was ok, until he went deeper now note a boy doesn't really know how your feeling ( unless but the sounds ) so you can't blame him if he hurts you, but he hurt me - i love him so much & i found after the tense moment was over i enjoyed it but the beginning hurts like hell. Don't be scared that will just make it so much worse, and the pain will be partly stress :| i talked to him about it before & he assured me everything would be fine and it was! i love my bfs honesty! and now we are so much closer and more in love then ever! Just be careful it's painful yet enjoyable and totally worth it!

    Posted by [No first name supplied] on 14 February 2009  |  2 people found this useful

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