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17 and a still a virgin - should I worry? I'm worried that when I go to university that I will be see as "weird". What should I do?

Jamie on 16 May 2010 17 Comments

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  • heyy, seriously, don't ever worry about it...when i went to the university i was virgin too, and that doesn't make you different from anyone. Well, thruth be told, i am not virgin anymore, and IT JUST FEELS LIKE THE SAME :P
    btw enjoy ur college timee its unique, im about to graduate :/

    Posted by john on 01 June 2011  |  0 people found this useful

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  • You really do have nothing to worry about. Honestly. I went to university a virgin, I'm in my final year and remain so. I only had my first kiss a few months ago when I was nearly 20.

    Nobody has ever thought me weird or whatever and I happily tell people that I'm still a virgin at the age of 21.

    Posted by Hannah on 01 May 2011  |  0 people found this useful

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  • I went to university a virgin and didn't lose my virginity until I was 20. It's not that big a deal as it seems. When you find the right person to lose your virginity to you will know, I've never regretted waiting so long. I was the last of my friends, and pretty sure the last in my university class, to lose my virginity, and I'm glad I was :) Only do it when you're comfortable enough, don't be pressured by your age!

    Posted by Rachael on 29 April 2011  |  0 people found this useful

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  • If they see you as being "weird" as you put it the they are stupid, it just means that your waiting for when the time! Only have sex when you are READY! Dont feel like because everyone else is doing it, it means you have to! Fair enough most people have had sex, but most of those people lie about having it, so dont even think you are the only person that hasnt had sex coz your not, most of your mates that have sed that they have had sex prob havent! So dw bout it!

    Posted by Lily on 26 April 2011  |  0 people found this useful

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