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How do you keep sex fresh?

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  • i been with my bf 4 yrs and have a 2 yr old son for the 1st 2 yrs our sex life was great even through my pregnancy we watched porn together role played dressed up even played with toys etc but since our son was born its gone down hill FAST!!! he keeps tellin me he finds me attractive still n he loves me but he doesnt show it to me anymore i need action instead of words we do have sex occasionally n its good not great like it used to be though but im getting to the point where if he doesnt start showin me that he wants me n finds me desirable etc i'll seek it from else where and believe me it wouldnt be hard to do lol but seriously i'm the adventurous 1 in our r/ship n i feel like iv used up all my ideas and need new idea's to rekindle our spark any suggestions???

    Posted by cat on 15 December 2011  |  0 people found this useful

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  • I completely disagree. I believe when you are comfortable with a partner, the spark can go with sex becoming repetitive, trying new things, as long as you both feel comfotrable with it, can be liberating, and fun. I also find it easier to climax like this as the focus is less on the 'goal'

    Posted by Rachel on 05 July 2010  |  0 people found this useful

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  • To keep things fresh in your relationship, I would always reccomend suprising your partner with interesting and new things that you can do together such as roleplay, dressing up and acting out "raunchy" scenes together, when you pretend that you aren't eachother it allows you to fulfill the fantasy that you are having sex with somebody else and will make you less tempted to stray in a relationship that you feel has lost it's sexual excitment.

    Posted by Kate on 18 September 2008  |  0 people found this useful

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